[rl/bitching/mute] love being the thoughtful one.

love being the one who makes sure my bro has a nice warm meal when he gets home from his wednesday stuff.

love being the one who spends a litl extra time to get mum and bro some nice fries on the way home from dnd.

love them both forgetting, deciding to make pizza tonight, and then not getting why im mad that they didnt even spare any cut up ingredients for me.

LOVE that.

oh, theres still some dough, but no i gotta do all the prep, all that, while my bro gets to come home to meals fully prepared.

just don't do stuf or go out of your way to do stuff for them anymore if they repeatedly fail to appreciate it? that's what I do

that's what im feeling like doing honestly

I'd do it. Still do it for yourself, and if anybody bothers to ask you can offer to do it for them - the next time - and then make it a case by case thing.

that was no feelings should get hurt and any extra work should be appreciated

and if they end up hungry its on them for forgetting to just ask

exactly. it's like... i'm sick of. being taken advantage of? it feels like. i know we're all autistic, but.

sometimes people just get so used to something that they forget that it's not for granted. it's not even with bad intentions, just lack of paying attention due to force of habit /pats back

you still got all the rights to be frustrated over it tho. I'd be too