vampiricist
will someone do me a HUGE favour and tell me i'm not a bad person for not wanting to visit my parents this weekend because i'm in too much pain?
vampiricist
my period is really doing a number on me and i just hurt all over
ᴡɪɴᴄʜᴇꜱᴛᴇʀ ᴡɪʟᴅ
You’re not, definitely
vampiricist
thank you. i just always feel guilty when canceling plans and like "oh i can tough it out"
vampiricist
but also like. why make myself miserable?
BRUNO PLS
you are very much not a bad person for wanting to spare yourself that kind of misery
𝔂𝓾𝓶𝓲
you are not. you have to take care of yourself
𝔂𝓾𝓶𝓲
also you will probably not be fun to be around if you are in pain
ᴡɪɴᴄʜᴇꜱᴛᴇʀ ᴡɪʟᴅ
i wimped out on plans with a friend once bc it was 'too windy'.
ᴡɪɴᴄʜᴇꜱᴛᴇʀ ᴡɪʟᴅ
granted i've never heard the end of that but you're definitely not a bad person for not wanted to spend time around people while you're in pain
𝔂𝓾𝓶𝓲
ᴡɪɴᴄʜᴇꜱᴛᴇʀ ᴡɪʟᴅ
: depending on how you get there and what you do wind is a super legit reason to cancel
ᴡɪɴᴄʜᴇꜱᴛᴇʀ ᴡɪʟᴅ
to be fair to me it was like 60mph gusts. to be fair to her she was legit 4 minutes down the road lmao
𝔂𝓾𝓶𝓲
lol both valid
mari lwyd
that's literally the same thing as wanting to hang while you're sick
mari lwyd
you don't want to! you'll be bad company! they shouldn't want to bc it's inconsiderate!
Jaq
You are not a bad person for wanting to look after your health
shinotenshi22
Echoing what everyone else has said. And if you're parents give you shit I'll come beat em up for you
vampiricist
thank you lovelies 
vampiricist
My mom was super understanding, she knows about my endometriosis and how bad it can get
Jaq
"My uterus is trying to kill me and I will not be good company"
ᴍᴏᴏɴᴡʀᴀɪᴛʜ.
definitely not a bad person
Vincent Gogh
you aren't a bad person; you need some you time
Vincent Gogh
and you havent had that for quite awhile
vampiricist
that is true, i haven't
Vincent Gogh
