some recipes say you really need to salt it to get out bitterness but i've read that's not really necessary since they've bred eggplant to be less bitter (i've never bothered tbh)
but yeah an easy recipe where it cooks in sauce or w/e might be the best one to make first to learn what the cooked texture should be like. eggplant parm is good but a lot of work and having it turn out bad after a lot of work is no fun orz
idk I'm not a big eggplant liker