Finally finished reading Polysecure

I think it's useful framework around which one could intentionally structure relationships and it offers some useful tools to deal with trauma and attachment issues in relationships

it was a throwaway line at the end that mentioned relationship anarchy that caught my attention though

something about a belief in the fluidity of relationships and the ability to transition be eaten different levels and types of intimacy

which got me searching

RELATIONSHIP ANARCHY Occupy Intimacy!

might be my next read

i haven't finished either of the poly books i started a year ago but adding these two to my list