I'm so sick of things being so complicated with my ex

or ig I should say I'm tired of her friends being so... god idek the right word

bc ex and I are fine. we get along great. better than we did when we were together

and we wanna hang out

but noooooo can't do that bc her friends hate me so even though it's been FIVE FUCKING YEARS since break up/blow up/whatever if my name is even mentioned they still get all tilted and give her shit

so obviously I can't come take care of when she's sick, nor can I attend the cookie baking thing she's hosting on Sunday even though both of us want me to do both those things

I really just wish her stupid friends would Get Over It already

disclaimer that yes I'm aware ppl are entitled to their feelings and no one is owed forgiveness blah blah blah. I'm just really frustrated at the entire situation and neither of us even know what to do abt it anymore