An hour before this make up session we're supposed to do for ghosting on me he texts to say his CPR licence expired and he can't train until a class he's taking this morning to renew it.
I called him out on how he didn't know about this class sooner and his excuse was his boss told him last night that it expired so he didn't know until now.
And he was like we can still do our normal Monday time!!! And I'm just like: are you even sure that your licence will be in by then? Maybe he gets it as soon as he finishes the class, but I don't trust this guy any more
When I told him I was done and to refund/cancel for our missed sessions rather than make it up he offered me 2 free ones to show he can be dependable and he's just having a bad week
But while I do think he is having a bad week between losing his phone and this CPR thing that doesn't exactly explain the other sessions he's moved around last minute that I didn't ask for an explanation for until they became the normal
Yeah, and I'm a new client is what I kept thinking. If he's okay like this while we're trying to get to know each other how is he going to act when we're more set into a rhythm?
And half the stuff he cancelled/rearranged for was things like: my car broke down, my daughter is ill, and once or twice: oh shit I'm a moron who double booked.
And I'm not sure if I'm disappointed in myself because if he hadn't admitted to letting a licence run out/had a class/knew last night I might have actually given him another chance if he just said: something came up.
Hey, all that matters now is that you've gotten free of him. Imagine how sloppy he'd be with the actual training if he can't organize scheduling. He could've forgotten contraindications or whatever and gotten you injured.
I'm going to check out the: PT wall at the gym closer to my house. Maybe this will be a blessing in disguise. As he was at the gym closer to my old job
serpentcyborg
: also I'm glad you mention that as it does make me feel a bit better. As, yeah, pretty sure he should also be on top of this and most bosses don't keep track of that.
dude, when I volunteered doing tavern work at my LARP you had to have a food handlers permit and while they kept track of when they expired to know who was allowed in the kitchen and who Was Not, it was 100% on you to remember it expired and renew it on time to be able to work in game.
it's not a bad thing that you were kind and gave extra chances and that you tried to be understanding. you were more understanding than a lot of people were. but if he can't accept that this was his screw up and he had multiple chances to not screw up, well, that points to a much bigger problem.
So much purr. Although she's going to be disappointed in a moment when I get up to start some chores. I just decided to sit with her to have a warm drink before I get started.
But most importantly
B. YOU KNEW LAST NIGHT