awkward adult shit: have a non related aunt who has two daughters. me and the youngest daughter had to be friends as kids, and we were OK, but because I am and have always been such a nerd, she always looked down on me and would ditch me as often as possible and would gang up with me and her other friends to bully me from time to time.

it was minor as fat as bullying goes, so I didn't take it any more to heart really as just kids are shit, news at 11 but I also have had NOTHING in common with her as an adult at all.

she recently got engaged and is having a baby.

I could. not. care. less.

but I am getting all the updates and are trying to be polite about the whole thing.

especially because there is that weird expectation as an adult woman the same age that where is my baby

never, thanks, is the answer.

that is super awkward

awkward indeed.

that said it sounds like you're being very graceful about it. I've flatly said "I don't care that woman is not my family." before to a similar situation so ¯\_(ツ)_/¯