sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
[baby stuff] Fertility clinics and law firms are so cis and hetero centric I want to scream
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
If I have to fill out oNE MORE FORM that says "intended father" and "intended mother" as required fields..............
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
is it me, am I the father
hellpet
I hate them so much.
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
These are online forms with a red required asterisk by them
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
I am not physically carrying the baby, is that what you mean form
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
why not just say that, form
hellpet
I had to go to a clinic for non-baby reasons, and it was a nightmare on many levels.
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
also your current display name is v topically appropriate as what we are attempting to do is pay for jizz
Teeff
god BURN THE FORMS
hella
that blows, the one sarah and i went through was super lgbt friendly, i thought more would be better about that shit now
hella
the only thing that was cis/hetero centric was the birth certificate and the hospital immediately apologized for it and said the government just hadn't caught up.
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
the clinic itself is great and very lgbt friendly. which is why we just trusted the list of lawyers they gave us lmao
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
one directly said they don't do same sex fertility specifically
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
this is san francisco where do you think you are sirs
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
we finally landed on a good one but I def gave the clinic an update on some of these folks.
hella
good, bc that's ridic especially for the area
Teeff
Woooo welcome yo the 21st century assholes
DEMON TWINK
Oh god this is about to be my future
sᴀʟᴛʙɪᴀɴ
Oh yeah? Y'all making plans?
DEMON TWINK
Yup! But they've been temporarily derailed by potentially buying a house