WarriorOfSpite
[Wank] i... don't think I can do this anymore.
WarriorOfSpite
I am in a lot of pain rn. I asked if I can wfh but Vay needs someone in the warehouse as he's going to be out for most of the day
WarriorOfSpite
so. sure. fine. I'll get a cab in.
WarriorOfSpite
I just don't want to do this anymore. that's probably reason enough for leaving a job to be fair. but this is just.
WarriorOfSpite
im exhausted. im disengaged at work. I mess up a lot and im just not interested.
WarriorOfSpite
im going to be putting my notice in tomorrow I think, because the longer I leave it the worse I'm going to feel.
theres a bunch of stuff that made me not want to, like Vay trying to get a mortgage and move and getting a new warehouse
WarriorOfSpite
but he also wants to get an apprentice in whod id have to teach
WarriorOfSpite
and I didn't sign up for that
WarriorOfSpite
hes also saying im on £20k. im not. I'm on 16 lmao
WarriorOfSpite
effectively, at least, after deductions and tax and all that
WarriorOfSpite
but yeah I'm gonna. make notice. start looking for remote work
WarriorOfSpite
prat I don't spend a long spelll unemployed
WarriorOfSpite
prat lmao
Sleepy Deer
/hug I know this feel
Sleepy Deer
Start looking now, before your time is up at this one.
WarriorOfSpite
I have been, yeah
WarriorOfSpite
I need to get my website up to scratch but I'm going to be asking for a lot of help on that one
𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚔𝚒𝚍🔪
Ultimately Millie it's not your burden that he's working on his own personal finances or his decisions in running his business. You are a decision he makes re: running his business and if he's not willing to compensate you well enough or treat you well enough (which we know he sure doesn't treat you well enough) then that's his choice
𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚔𝚒𝚍🔪
You're not responsible for his money decisions personally or for the overarching business
𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚔𝚒𝚍🔪
You shouldn't feel bad for taking charge of your own life and quitting. He made it without you before, he'll figure out how to do it again, or he'll hire someone else
WarriorOfSpite
yeah. I know that really, its more scary for me to quit without something lined up, and possibly taking a sanction to my universal credit because I left a job willingly?
WarriorOfSpite
I should be okay but
WarriorOfSpite
If I need to open up emergency commissions I will
WarriorOfSpite
I am just having a very bad day and this is almost certainly making this worse but I...
WarriorOfSpite
guh
STORAAGCAPACITY
Yeah... he's vastly underpaying you, anyway. For all that you do.
WarriorOfSpite
im currently trying to fend off a panic attack in the store room
Prickly Android
::: hugs ::: You've been struggling for a while.
WarriorOfSpite
I at least have a lot more under my belt
ᴼᴴ ᶠᴼᴿ 🦊 ˢᴬᴷᴱ
/hug I hope you find something that you enjoy more. 🧡
STORAAGCAPACITY
God, I am so sorry you had to deal with this guy for so long
WarriorOfSpite
part of me is like. what if i dont look for a lead and just dont do anything for a month
WarriorOfSpite
now that i type that there this is burnout, huh
𝚜𝚝𝚛𝚎𝚎𝚝𝚔𝚒𝚍🔪
yes, it is
WarriorOfSpite
/drags hand down face
mariscorner🇺🇦
I’m sorry to hear that you have to deal with him. /hug
WarriorOfSpite
honestly what vay needs isnt me, it's a marketing specialist
I şĥĩp ĩţ
/hugs I get it. burnout is a real thing (and very common in my profession). if it's making you worse then quit and find something new.
WarriorOfSpite
So uh actually, some good news. Turns out Vay was gonna bring up me leaving anyway, bc he needs someone physically capable of doing warehouse work which im clearly losing the ability to do
WarriorOfSpite
the caveat being ill have to stay for slightly longer than two weeks, as he needs to move into the new warehouse and will need me to be the body in the old one until then
WarriorOfSpite
but having a month of wages and an exit date will help my mood considerably I think
mariscorner🇺🇦
That is good to hear.
WarriorOfSpite
yeah. I think I'm going to try and get a fit note from my mental health nurse for a month or so just to give myself some breathing room
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