He also has really sketch sex ed schooling so he didn't get a solid bit on sexuality. And also has probably avoided getting any sort of talk from the kents like plague because it's too awkward to get that from superman's parents.
So he's struggling here bc all he has is the literal situation of "touched face by accident" and he's struggling to conceptualize how he'd feel if he'd been touched by non accident
He had one relationship where he couldn't keep up because of the power imbalance, an abusive relationship with an even worse power imbalance, a not-quite-a-relationship with a super unbalanced chick when he was a super at that building
just Ken
: I blame his parents. They were like comically unavailable. Like DC looked at him said “we can’t make THREE of the orphans to start”. So they were just constantly on business trips.
and it's a problem due to his life experience or lack thereof, and constant dysfunctional relationships where things weren't his speed and he had no time to figure out his emotions
Dick: Yeah, that's...kind of the entire family.