As in they had to do everything short of literally beating him over the head with a chair while shouting about how they're family now and he was just going to have to learn to accept it
(Lana took a shortcut and just spent five years searching for his ass while he was a popsicle, then mounted an insane(ly) (un)successful rescue mission on her own initiative)
Palebloods may feel increasing jealousy about friends of their friends, and feel insecure about their own place in a friend's life.
What like even more