veth
[rp] question
veth
...2 questions
veth
1. would you feel weird tagging someone on a meme with an obscure character with no obvious commonality to theirs
veth
2. would you feel weird if someone tagged you on a meme with an obscure character with no obvious commonality to yours
wedding rose??
i wouldn't in the past though these days i pretty much only tag people i know anyway
veth
(not a meme with prompts like the AMA meme, just a meme where people put up toplevels with their character and that's it)
Gayple
if they say 'OTA' then nah, not weird
☣ UROBOROS
i'm shy on memes so i generally don't tag out much, but with regards to 2 i wouldn't mind at all
evangelatkes
the worst they can do is not reply which leaves you no worse off than if you hadn't tagged them
Be Maki-Mine🍁
It's my impression that this is what memes are for and that I avoid the memes proper out of my shyness
veth
evangelatkes
I appreciate that but I'm just trying to get like... a psychological sense
veth
like if someone tagged me under these conditions I would be very happy (possibly because I do mostly play obscure characters anyway)
veth
but thinking about tagging out? nope who's this weirdo
veth
so why is the difference @_@
ღluna
Yeah, I feel the same way. Doing it is daunting as hell, getting it would be nice...
veth
this is why memes with prompts are the good stuff
veth
maybe I should put up a meme with prompts
wedding rose??
what kind 
veth
wedding rose??
not sure! open to suggestions
veth
could be AMA, we haven't had that since august
veth
could be something else
Phas|DippedOut
Not weird, especially if they've got an "OTA" on their TL
Phas|DippedOut
but if you feel awkward about it you can always, like, start with an OOC comment like "Do you mind ____?"
Gayple
I think medium divide might be an issue but some people don't mind it
veth
see I love cross-medium CR ;A;
wedding rose??
the only place i really find the medium divide doesn't exist at all is in murdergames, because everyone gets to know everyone
Alan Sleep
IME people who play from obscure canons are usually thrilled to get tags, regardless of the canon the other character is from
Alan Sleep
It's a sort of "hey someone thought my character was interesting enough to want to tag them, neat!" sort of thing
veth
Alan Sleep
true! but what if it's an obscure character tagging a non-obscure character
Alan Sleep
Every time I've done that, the other person was happy for the tag
Alan Sleep
People post to memes because they want to RP
Alan Sleep
I usually approach it with an OOC "hey, so here's the deal with my character and I thought this would make for an interesting combination, do you have any preferences for prompts?" first but I've never had anyone say no
veth
hhhhmgh I need to try and be less self-conscious about it
veth
I just hear this voice in my head going "who do YOU think you are that your character is so interesting"
Alan Sleep
I find what really helps is to have a good info post in the character's journal
Alan Sleep
Especially if it's a character that isn't easily Googleable