
veth
[rp] question

veth
...2 questions

veth
1. would you feel weird tagging someone on a meme with an obscure character with no obvious commonality to theirs

veth
2. would you feel weird if someone tagged you on a meme with an obscure character with no obvious commonality to yours

tutorials georg
i wouldn't in the past though these days i pretty much only tag people i know anyway

veth
(not a meme with prompts like the AMA meme, just a meme where people put up toplevels with their character and that's it)

Gayple
if they say 'OTA' then nah, not weird

☣ UROBOROS
i'm shy on memes so i generally don't tag out much, but with regards to 2 i wouldn't mind at all

monsterkiss%
the worst they can do is not reply which leaves you no worse off than if you hadn't tagged them

Be Maki-Mine 💘
It's my impression that this is what memes are for and that I avoid the memes proper out of my shyness

veth
monsterkiss%
I appreciate that but I'm just trying to get like... a psychological sense

veth
like if someone tagged me under these conditions I would be very happy (possibly because I do mostly play obscure characters anyway)

veth
but thinking about tagging out? nope who's this weirdo

veth
so why is the difference @_@

ღluna
Yeah, I feel the same way. Doing it is daunting as hell, getting it would be nice...

veth
this is why memes with prompts are the good stuff

veth
maybe I should put up a meme with prompts

tutorials georg
what kind


veth
tutorials georg
not sure! open to suggestions

veth
could be AMA, we haven't had that since august

veth
could be something else

VanityPhroject
Not weird, especially if they've got an "OTA" on their TL

VanityPhroject
but if you feel awkward about it you can always, like, start with an OOC comment like "Do you mind ____?"

Gayple
I think medium divide might be an issue but some people don't mind it

veth
see I love cross-medium CR ;A;

katzenjammer
i also love cross-medium but i find it hard to get, as an anime-player

tutorials georg
the only place i really find the medium divide doesn't exist at all is in murdergames, because everyone gets to know everyone

Fallen
IME people who play from obscure canons are usually thrilled to get tags, regardless of the canon the other character is from

Fallen
It's a sort of "hey someone thought my character was interesting enough to want to tag them, neat!" sort of thing

veth
Fallen
true! but what if it's an obscure character tagging a non-obscure character

Fallen
Every time I've done that, the other person was happy for the tag

Fallen
People post to memes because they want to RP

Fallen
I usually approach it with an OOC "hey, so here's the deal with my character and I thought this would make for an interesting combination, do you have any preferences for prompts?" first but I've never had anyone say no

veth
hhhhmgh I need to try and be less self-conscious about it

veth
I just hear this voice in my head going "who do YOU think you are that your character is so interesting"

Fallen
I find what really helps is to have a good info post in the character's journal

Fallen
Especially if it's a character that isn't easily Googleable