should i tell my ex husband that her daughter was having a high fever right now while he's with his effin mistress...?

was right now…?

How concerned is he before this?

And does your daughter ever look for him?

whale2583: no not anymore

Hmm.. well i don’t see why you should.. unless you think it’s critical

That is called appeal to pity. Its not going to get you anywhere. He may be concerned for your daughter but thats it
Do not implant false illusions in your head thinking that the sickness of your daughter will make your family whole again

thank you guys i haven't told him anyway, i guess it's time for me to embrace all this being a single mom.

you a strong mum

and hope your bby gets well soon

you don't have to tell him anything, you're a strong mom