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Cis man talks about supporting his trans and female coworkers, Internet: is this a misogynist?
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boodle boy
[games/misogyny]
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GAYVANGELION
yeah like tbh he comes off as kind of self important but like people
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GAYVANGELION
come on
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boodle boy
I mean it does but also, the point is we NEED CIS MEN TO DO THIS
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boodle boy
I'll take cis men feeling good about themselves but speaking up over the alternative
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boodle boy
Especially because they definitely will face the LEAST amount of direct backlash for doing so. They'll continue to have careers.
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GAYVANGELION
Agree
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GAYVANGELION
don't let perfect be the enemy of good
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boodle boy
Also i can't tell if people are not reading, or genuinely stupid but the whole reverse sexism ideology people going around deciding that 'oh you didn't want giant titties on a female character, YOU MUST HATE WOMEN' (generally from men) is so tired
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boodle boy
It's so tired.
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
i think the relevant factor is that MOST video game women have big titties
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boodle boy
Yeah lmao
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
so being against changing the design you already have to add tities isn't hating on traditional feminine shapes, its just allowing female characters to look different than standard
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boodle boy
Right! And like no one would look, in this case, at Rivet's final design and be unclear that she is
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boodle boy
"A Girl"
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
especially when the lead writer and a lead designer are against it
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GAYVANGELION
anyway this topic is how i found that college humor animation boobs video and its really just on point
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boodle boy
And anyway the crux of this all, is that the women and trans people on the team have to FIGHT for such piddly stuff
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
yeah the fact that a bunch of cis dudes were arguing about it long enough to get super frustrated is just like
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boodle boy
And that's hard and depressing and cis men don't understand how much those little things weigh on you. They see it as just a discussion, or no big deal
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
why... why are you pushing so hard for this?
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
why are you so desperate to make a character less unique
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boodle boy
Also like, because they "won" this argument people are like "well it's not harassment because they got what they wanted" but it's like....the point is that they had to fight very hard for something that should have been no big deal....
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
yeah
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𝖓𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞👁️𝖙𝖎𝖉𝖉𝖞
its the majority of other people in the discussion, all who were men, making it so difficult
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boodle boy
Yeah! Speaking up for something that you feel strongly about in a room full of cis men is like
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boodle boy
HELL
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GAYVANGELION
the lead writer basically noped out of the studio from this incident too
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boodle boy
Yeah, girl cashed out and I don't blame her
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plurkishdelight
and i not blame her one bit
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boodle boy
I'm glad blizzard stuff is getting out there and emboldening people to talk about their experiences, especially people like xavvier and Sam Maggs who are in stable positions where they CAN talk
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boodle boy
(Sam Maggs obviously i think is ballsy as heck for talking so openly and explicitly about her time at Bioware, something she can no doubt do because she has a successful comic and book career so she doesn't really NEED the game industry to like her)
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boodle boy
I remember internet boys being SO MAD
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boodle boy
That Sam was on R&C
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GAYVANGELION
Yeah I agree real ballsy
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GAYVANGELION
and she basically called out who was shitty without even naming him
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boodle boy
this is another really good example of how hard it is to navigate the sphere too, because RA is a game with basically an entirely new development team, and one of the most women-led games in the AAA market. 3/5 main writers were women, including both the senior and the lead, as well as many of the lead animators who were really vocal
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boodle boy
LOTS OF QUEERS AND WOMEN AND QUEER WOMEN. And i think that like, by and large, they made the game they wanted to make, it really seems like they fought super hard and won many of their battles. It feels very much like it was made FOR women and queers lmfao
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boodle boy
So i dont want to dismiss, diminish or condemn their efforts. I follow a lot of them on twitter and it's kind of insane how much love they put into their parts. (The lead animator talks about Rivet like her first and only daughter it's very sweet)
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boodle boy
It's extra frustrating because it wasn't even an old guard versus new guard or some bullshit....the creative and game director were ALSO new to their roles on the series so like. Get rid of THEM.
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boodle boy
The two wolves in me are "i want the people who actually made, wrote, and fought for this game to succeed to get all the credit for its success" and "i want Marcus Smith and Mike Daly to get no credit and also to go away"
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GAYVANGELION
Yeah, I feel like that's hard part. Some AAA studios are becoming more diverse but they still have a lot of the same problems and its like hell... how do I go about this
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boodle boy
Yep, which is kind of where talking becomes important because frankly, these companies DO fear shame. And a increasing awareness and vocalness about this stuff incentivizes them to start cleaning house
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GAYVANGELION
100%
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GAYVANGELION
I hope people are super critical of bioware for DA4. they've coasted too long on lip service