At what point do you stop waiting for someone to tag and just assume they’ve moved on and forgotten. Especially when you’ve gently poked them once or twice? I should just delete these ones from March, right? I’m not getting a reply.

And how do you know if it’s you, or them?

Newsflash: RPer is insecure about themselves, more at 11

Don't delete them. So if they ever ask about it later, you can point at them.

if they do it a lot, it's them. if it happens to you a lot, especially with people that are otherwise consistent, it's you

I love backtags, but I'm also a bit absent-minded because of things and a busy schedule on top of it). I also have literally had problems even seeing messages. So. There's that. I'm always insecure that I'll be forgotten about D: