shippy questions while I crash with migraine

1, 3, 5 with Oda

1 100% Instinct and he just orders people to sleep with him Usually because they intrigue him. In IkeSen because he feels safe with MC (she rescued him from Honno-ji without even knowing who he is or wanting reward) -- He actually has no idea he even has feelings, because they're buried way way deep down.

wrt Kitsuno he was IRL devastated af when she died and broken up completely so AU kitsune Kitsuno just had him intrigued off the bat and he knew what his feelings were

3) definitely the latter, but it depends on what you count as his family. In Samurai Love Ballad, he takes MC to meet his Mom but it takes her a long time to even realize it's his mother because their relationship is so awkward and strained and Gozen is like that

(Gozen = his mom)

Meeting his left/right hands + Masamune + close vassals etc. is usually pretty automatic though because Hideyoshi is like "WHO R U /SUSPICOUS!!!!" and Masamune also tests those either to find out if she's for real, or prove it.

But that's less him introducing and more they do it on their own

5) Open book with a caveat! He doesn't even understand that he's kind of broken/fucked up from all the assassination attempts, like for real, he barely understands that it isn't normal and that the future he wanted of not that came true so you have to find out about his nightmares and relative PTSD through spending nights with him and experiencing it

Ditto: he pretty much won't sleep without supreme trust aid and he doesn't tell you that, even though if he did it would make your relationship easier it literally doesn't occur to him.

And like he does indeed sleep way better with MC/other but he can't tell you that, you have to pick it up from those around him basically saying it.