Intolerable about Xichen: okay you coming in with the tough ones as I don't think anyone ever finds Xichen intolerable but the mix between righteous and just god enough to be able to back it up might get on some people's nerves
Xichen, judgmental: when he knows they did something Wrong. Like he will listen to the whole story, but he will not be swayed by personal sympathy when making the actual judgment.
Wangji, behaviors / beliefs that cannot be justified: that he HAS to go with Wei Ying's every whim now. (Sorry, Wei Ying, you need to be called out now and again.)
Wangji: 12, 16, 7
the mix between righteous and just god enough to be able to back it up might get on some people's nerves
like any libraAccording to him: taking too long to Perceive Wei Ying.