Just👻Ghosts
[mental health] [suggestions wanted!] Okay throwing this out to the crowd
Just👻Ghosts
Got some moderate depression that's set in. It's definitely impeding my ability to Do Anything but I have to go clean the gym and set up for classes
Just👻Ghosts
So I need to bribe my brain with a treat after X-(
Just👻Ghosts
Suggestions? What helps you when you're not seriously low but low enough to be frustrated with yourself?
Becky
Junk food. Which I realize is not ideal but there we are
bluecanary
hum
bluecanary
i like to go down fanfic/fan blog rabbit holes so i usually have a few bookmarked and i can read one if i get my shit done
Becky
namely those damn froty-ccino things wendy's done that is like a cheap frappe. "If I go out and do the thing I get ice cream coffee on the way home."
Becky
...frosty not froty, dammit
cacopheny
junk food here, too. do the thing, get cookies
Just👻Ghosts
frostyccinos are SO GOOD
Becky
THEY SO FUCKING ARE. I love those damn things, LOL
Becky
anyway yeah those and reese's pb eggs (in season) are my standard self-bribes. I drive past the opportunity to get them and it makes me like going out and doing shit more. I'm a dog
Becky
change my CER dammit
Sᴀɢʀᴇᴅᴏ
Promise myself a bit of tea and yeah a bit of something like cheese or so
Jay
yeah... junk food. McDonalds or a shake somewhere
Jay
used to be Starbucks, but I can make tastier coffee at home now
StupidSexyV⚠der
yeah. ice cream or something
the feℓsider.
When I am low but frustrated rather than too low to cope, bribes definitely work. There's also the classic tactic of "we're gonna stand up. that's cool right? we can stand. okay, we're standing, now we're gonna go put on our shoes. cool, we got shoes on. now, we achieve coat. holla, we have coat. since we're all ready we may as well GO." etc.
the feℓsider.
I meant food bribes specifically, my bad, but sometimes I also reward myself with vegetation, in the sense that I go "look, okay, we do in fact have to go do a thing, but after that, we can live in a blanket fortress for xxx hours and watch crappy reality tv cooking shows while eating nothing but popcorn and chocolate chips"
the feℓsider.
removing bra + putting on comfy clothes as the instantaneous "you did it, you're home now!" reward used to be very good, but I given I don't leave the house anymore, bras are a myth
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