
Sin
So I learned today about inner monologues...I guess I don't have one and having one sounds like an interesting experience.

The Pol Mahal
I've heard that some people don't. Mine is going all the time.

The Pol Mahal
Is it something that can be developed?

🔹nkaru🔹
Non-stop in my head.

Sin
The Pol Mahal
I don't know actually, it would be interesting to look into.

Sin
The Pol Mahal
🔹nkaru🔹
Okay so question. If you guys are hungry or tired, does your inner monologue have some kind of commentary?

The Pol Mahal
I think it's a good thing to have as long as your inner voice isn't putting you down (which is a problem that some people have).

The Pol Mahal
Yes, mine says "Get something to eat" or "I am NOT tired and I will NOT go to bed."

The Pol Mahal
But mostly I have a running commentary on events. I spend a lot of time turning over phrases and ideas.

The Pol Mahal
It's a great thing for a writer to have.

Sin
The Pol Mahal
Interesting. I definitely have moments where I'll mull something over, even for an extended period of time, but I guess I don't consider it as having a voice, if that makes sense? The whole topic came up actually because of differences in how my friend and I read.

The Pol Mahal
It's really just talking to oneself, but not aloud and with no conscious compulsion to do so.

The Pol Mahal
It's just automatic.

🌈Chandni (They)
I keep being fascinated that there are people without inner monologues. I wonder how it would be to have.. silence LOL

Sin
🌈Chandni (They)
It's kinda nice...I guess? Having a regular voice in your head sounds kinda tiring (especially if it's being annoying). But it explains what the fuss about meditation is I think?

🔹nkaru🔹
In my case it may be a holdover from being on my own a bunch and not wanting to be a loony who talks out loud to themselves.


Sad maple shoes
I've just recently learned that some people don't have them. It's an odd concept to me.

✿Kirsten✿
yes lay down and my mind won't shut off. I don't sleep much, but I don't need a lot of sleep, never have.

✿Kirsten✿
I don't notice it all the time. It's not always going, or I am not paying attention to it. Sometimes its too much and I just want to shut it off and other times I don't notice it because my mind is busy or occupied.

Sin
Oooooh. That explains a lot with my bf then, who sometimes has trouble going to sleep. I usually don't stay awake unless I'm really excited or nervous about something, but I can see how having a voice running in your head would prevent sleep.

Imzi
I too am fascinated that some don't have that dialog. So weird.

Nimil
i only have an inner monologue when my anxiety reaches high levels, i don't have it when i'm at "normal"

Nimil
and then when i do have it its just repetitive obsessive anxiety thoughts

Natalie 🌈
“Oh you don’t like my opinions? You should hear the ones I keep to myself”

dkronfeld
Mine only speaks Spanish, which is a problem because I don’t

Clara 🦄
My brain is always going on about something. o.O