You're Quinner
[gender] sometimes I check in with both ends of the spectrum to make sure I'm actually nb
You're Quinner
trying to see myself as male is actively upsetting at this point
You're Quinner
but I gotta check the other side too
You're Quinner
tried to think of what my name might be if I was a girl
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I got like two possible names in before going "blegh" and stopping because of how little the whole exercise clicked
You're Quinner
so, check in complete, I guess
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I do not want to check out of the nb hotel
✶ 絶対嘘じゃない、愛してる
in my mind's eye this played out like those pics you see online of like, pawprints left in the snow outside people's doors when their cats have gone to vibe outside, felt the snow and gone "nope"
✶ 絶対嘘じゃない、愛してる
"checked out there, i'm good, i'm gonna stay in here"
You're Quinner
how do you gendered people live
✶ 絶対嘘じゃない、愛してる
it's a mystery even to us
Flash Bastard
I mean, your name could still be Quinn. My wife got there by way of 'legal middle name granted upon adoption.'
Flash Bastard
(The in-laws... still use [legal first name]...)
You're Quinner
it could be but I don't wanna be girl quinn
Flash Bastard
Super legit!
skerple
the snow is gender
the snow is gender
You're Quinner
yes
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things I said on discord just now
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"I was male for 33 years and if I have to be male for one more second I'm going to burst into flames"
Echo
Valid as fuck.
Echo
You did your time.
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even female names I like a lot (Nadia) I think of people addressing me by them and I'm like
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gross
Niamh Vibes
Quinn is Quinn
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it's-a me
Niamh Vibes
its a ze
You're Quinner
real talk I like having ze/zir but not being tied to it
You're Quinner
it's fun as an optional secondary
Niamh Vibes
Yeah!
Niamh Vibes
Its nice to have options