lucineblue
... I think my grandmother is dying
lucineblue
My Mamie lives in St Pierre et Miquelon. She was one of the smartest, most talented women I'd ever known. But after her partner passed away after already losing my grandfather, she fell into a depressive slump that brought on dementia.
lucineblue
she nearly died in 2011, but we got her to a home and she was doing well
lucineblue
not always there but she knew who we were
lucineblue
but ever since dad died... she's not eating well, and was looking thinner, and mentioned feeling like she's inprison
Y yo a ti, Cas
oh no. I'm so sorry
lucineblue
we contacted the doctor and got this message back
☆ 𝕤𝕥𝕒𝕣𝕝𝕚𝕘𝕙𝕥 ☆
i'm so sorry.
lucineblue
Son appétit et son entrain sont en baisse.

Les signes cliniques sont discrets  mais elle a une insuffisance cardiaque liée à un cœur fatigué et un passage en fibrillation auriculaire.

Néanmoins elle n’a aucune douleur.
lucineblue
So basically, heart issues, but she's not in pain
lucineblue
Horny on Main you'd be able to translate it better than me
lucineblue
But we can't be with her
lucineblue
we already lost dad.... why her too...
WereOwOlf
oh... I'm so sorry friend ;;
Rᴀɪɴᴇs
i'm so sorry, love
Max
I’m so sorry Jojo, please let us know if we can do anything for you
Horny on Main
I'm so sorry, Jo :-(
lucineblue
did you make out the translation? it's medical terms
rayneandthunder
i'm so sorry lucine ;;
♩ 𝓜𝓪𝓼𝓽𝓮𝓻 𝓜𝓾𝓼𝓮 ♩
I’m so sorry
Horny on Main
Yes I'm looking some things up just to make extra sure I'm not worrying you without reason, just a sec
lucineblue
that's kind of you
lucineblue
and thanks everyone, sorry
Horny on Main
Her appetite and spirit are going down.
Clinical signs are not obvious, but she has heart failure linked to a tired heart and an episode of atrial fibrillation.
However, she is not experiencing any pain.
Horny on Main
by clinical signs not obvious, I mean externally she seems well, her symptoms aren't apparent
Horny on Main
but it's visible on medical instruments
Horny on Main
I'm sorry
lucineblue
yeah, makes sense.
lucineblue
she took meds for her heart for years, so...
Horny on Main
yeah
lucineblue
I just... we can't go down to see her
Horny on Main
not sure if tired heart is the right term but yeah, basically her heart, like her, is old and showing signs of aging
Horny on Main
yeah :-(
lucineblue
we haven't even been able to put dad to rest yet
lucineblue
we don't know if she even knows dad is dead. if she remembers.
𝓟𝓢𝓛☕📔𝓟𝓻𝓲𝓷𝓬𝓮𝓼𝓼
Naem
I'm so sorry...
Siv
いい兄さん
I'm really sorry
Horny on Main
FIGHT KAY FIGHT
ℓιzzу вιтн
I'm so sorry. I am glad she's not in pain, but I can't imagine how hard it must be not being able to go visit her. can staff set up facetime/Zoom? we have done so, so many Zoom calls for people. it's not the same, but it can be a lot better than the phone.
The ♥ Lovers
oh no ;;; I'm sorry to hear
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The ♥ Lovers
I'm glad she isn't in pain but it sounds like a lot to bear regardless--my grandmother's case was really similar before she passed and I know it's hard to go through on both sides
太宰
I'm so sorry.
lucineblue
we are doing zoom meetings now and again-- maybe once a week/every two weeks?
lucineblue
it's just, after dealing with dad dying and covid and everything about the us election and losing my job and man fuck this shit
The ♥ Lovers
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