should i put my pronouns in my stean mickname or would that open me up to transphobes

i did a raid w/ my destiny 2 clan yesterday and it was fun but like two of the guys kept misgendering me on accident

b/c it was 10 am and my voice had not woken up fully to the point where i cared to do any self modulation

transphobes will make it about their opinions rather than you

I would go with whatever makes you most comfortable and happy tbh

I'm with Chi and Saria but with the added caveat of "you know how transphobes are and you're leaving that opening".

Your comfort is more important but knowing that fuckos are still there and will likely always be there is also still important

I count feeling safe under comfortable and happy