As you’re in the flow of a deep conversation, stay with that. Enjoy how it feels to connect as human beings, and allow the conversation to open up new avenues to explore.
Psychological distance. Timelines. Past heartbreaks. Ancient gender roles. Socialized differences in the sexes’ view of love, emotions, and vulnerability. A lack of genuine “relationship-nurturing” qualities today. Games, because everybody wants “the upper hand.” How the sexes respond to their partner’s “reflected glory.”
street smarts
quirky intelligence
gracious and empathetic wisdom
cultural openness and curiosity...etc.
Enjoy how it feels to connect as human beings, and allow the conversation to open up new avenues to explore.
Let it where it wants to go.
無業讀書到50歲,絕對會有很多想讀卻讀不完的,或是根本不知道有這種東西存在,發現之後就一頭栽進去