sometimes i just don't understand my bf at all

he was complaining today about being 'stir crazy' and wanting To Go Out and needing to DO SOMETHING

and its like 'okay, what?'

he misses the days we were playing pokemon go and we'd go to Bisbee (old bisbee was a fun tour ngl) or drive up a mountain on a whim or try a new restaurant

i'm like okay but.....we've been to those places already ('well we could go sightseeing again!') and they don't have the same appeal as the first time. once you see old Tombstone, you're good.

and me i'm a total homebody. obvs. i can and literally do spend all day writing or gaming or watching shows.

cuz to me being creative and up in my own head is waaaaay more fun than just. driving up a road and looking at a building.

but the root of the problem, i know, is he misses togetherness. and i've tried explaining, time and time again, we're on different sleep schedules. different wavelengths. when i'm getting up he's either already sleeping or drinking booze to go to sleep.

he's on a graveyard schedule. which today he fucked up by sleeping in til 11am so how he'll get enough sleep to work his 12a-12p shift, i've no idea

but. yea. hard to connect when we're constantly on different wavelengths.