i cant talk abt this anywhere else too i have a weird crush on a trans man and i dont know what to do about it

i am a Lesbian????

uhh hahahaha

he's also a huge player and like while i am poly i don't like being toyed around w/

this is sensitive situation tbh bc we were a little sexually/romantically involved when he thought he was nonbinary and he was like "actually im dude" everything kinda just....stopped? until recently