vitamin cee
[child abuse ig???] anyways its astounding how much ppl on the internet hate kids
vitamin cee
s*ddest a*gel on Twitter
this video series is going viral and eeeeveryone is like "wow what a brat, he should be punished for trying to eat everything"
vitamin cee
????? hes like????? two?????
vitamin cee
have u ever met a two year old, they put EVERYTHING in their mouths
redshirt
wow how dare a child act their age
太宰
omg what an adorable little monster
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people just want to be edgy
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BUT YEAH LIKE... WHAT THE HECK
太宰
it's a toddler y'all, ~punishing~ them isn't going to do shit because they don't understand what they're doing yet
redshirt
he's super cute tho
vitamin cee
redshirt
: yes how dare this literal toddler want to eat things that taste good
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: RIGHT like damn I hope these ppl don't have kids
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i guarantee they do not
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and if they do in the future they'll change their mind quick
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about what's worth punishing vs letting go
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pick ur battles
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omg as someone who lived with my nephew during his two year old phase, literally EVERYTHING went into his mouth. it happens, HE'S A TODDLER jfc people. let children be children
vitamin cee
pfle: right?? like eating a couple marshmallows isn't gonna hurt them and it isn't a sign that they're some sort of uncontrollable animal. theyre tiny, if something tastes or feels good, they want more of it.
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: y u p like its basically impossible for a two year old to conceive that eating 47 marshmallows now means being sick later. its not worth it
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spoonishly: right??? like thats how you experience the world as a kid that age. you don't have the words to ask/learn abt things that way, you gotta touch and chomp and lick everything
太宰
yeah exactly. honestly it looks like this might be a new thing for him so he's just excited and wants all the things!! you can see the woman in the video is reminding him and making sure he doesn't get all into it too so uh???
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i don't see the issue lmao
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like he's clearly being taken care of, kid's just excited. calm your tits
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also i'm always just like... for fuck's sake kids get like a handful of years to really enjoy themselves before life is just work and sleep and stress, let them have it
vitamin cee
pfle: RIGHT like she's making sure he's clean and safe and not eating tons of raw eggs or whatever, and hes learning that having time with mom/grandma means having fun and eating cool stuff! thats awesome!!
vitamin cee
whereas if the parent was snapping/punishing him for every little thing, he's going to learn that being with them means getting yelled at
太宰
yeah, punishing your kids all the time just makes them afraid to do anything and really distrusting 
vitamin cee
RIGHT like there's this other cooking series on youtube where the mom legit lets the kid do wtfever he wants and doesn't intervene unless he asks her to, and when I first watched it I was lkke "oh the mess!"
vitamin cee
but he was never in danger and he was having the time of his life, so like...it was just this instinct of "kids need to be under control/supervised at all times", which is super untrue
redshirt
yeah, kids should be allowed to have fun and make a mess
vitamin cee
its the same thing when ppl dont let their kids dye their hair or pick out their own clothes. like, what are you teaching that kid, that their body doesn't belong to them until they're 18?
vitamin cee
let kids be kids gdit, and if you're gonna wanna smack them all the time don't have them
太宰
yeah, it definitely is. my parents were the hypercontrolling type who always just yelled at me and shamed me for... everything... and i can honestly say the only parts of my childhood that i remember enjoying were the parts where they weren't around 
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I love how the lady is laughing and not getting pissed off like!!
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That makes me smile so much
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SAME... it's so charming
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honestly picking out their own clothes and going through fads and phases is such an important part of childhood too so it makes me sad that so many parents deprive their kids of that :c because it's really just part of trying on and finding your own identity
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and yeah maybe it's "silly" to wear baggy hot topic pants with twenty chains hanging off and die your hair neon green with pink streaks but they're like 13 so if anybody gon judge they got something wrong with them
vitamin cee
pfle: goddd which sucks SO MUCH D: like, the last time I got my hair done, there was this tiny little girl getting her hair dyed purple and she was SO HAPPY and SO EXCITED and her mom and dad were there telling her how awesome she looked and like??? the confidence that gives a kid?????
vitamin cee
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: YES good parenting, mom, thats how u teach ur kiddo that youre a safe, stable person
vitamin cee
2-year-old makes lasagna
this is the other kiddo, who just goes ham and his mom just lets him do whatever
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OH NO... that's such a sweet story and it makes me so happy when I see stuff like that 
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my sister is like that with her kids... they're still pretty young, but she's very sweet and encouraging and I really admire her.
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her husband too! they try to involve their kids in everything and it's just so charming
vitamin cee
yessss it makes me so happy when there are good parents who treat their kids like actual humans