Info dump when I didn't need it, accusing companies of stuff that isn't actually possible, cutting me off (and then telling me I'm not answering the question when I was in the middle of doing so), not listening to my answer, called me "honey"
I really need to try to train myself to have a lower, more androgynous phone voice. My very well practiced phone voice is inexplicably so much higher than my normal speaking voice... That results in a lot of "hun" and "honey" on the phone.
Also ma'am and miss. If it's a sweet old lady I can deal... (and, admittedly, this one guy with a delightful southern accent.) but most of the time it just makes me cringe.
I hate hate hate being gendered by voice also, but it is worse when on a conference call with mum and she uses gendered terms for me and I just want to scream. (Happened today, can you tell?)
Today went from meh to okay to I HATE PEOPLE. So, yeah... That's a thing.
Idk if the brain is up to tags but we'll see. RN I'm just trying to build myself up enough to do some cleaning and make dinner...