[minor rant]

Just because a stressful thing goes well in the end, or potentially goes well, does not mean it is retroactively not stressful

It does not magically negate the fucking stress

something stressful going well does not magically restore spoons that you consumed for that thing

those are still gone.

so perhaps I'm not in the mood for a spur-of-the-moment-decided home renovation project to be sprung on me after a job interview.

ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU DECIDE TO ADD EXTRA COMPLICATIONS BY SHOVING AN ENTIRE FUCKING FLOOR RUG SOMEWHERE WHERE IT DOES NOT ENTIRELY FIT

THAT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THE ACTUAL THING YOU WERE GOING TO DO YOU JUST WANTED TO SHOVE IT OUT THERE