CChuuni
From she to he - and back to she again
moosechangerpat the eating disorder thing I found interesting/relevant
CChuuni
Spiliadis believes good practice in this field should mean screening young people with gender identity issues for eating disorders. And because they are life-threatening, eating disorders should be treated before responding medically or surgically to the distress caused by gender dysphoria.
CChuuni
I mean flipside dumbass is on the hormones for other medical purposes and MAY (or may not, who can fucking tell with the psycho) be doing better buuuuut
MooseChangerPat
CChuuni
/headpat
MooseChangerPat
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it. took me a minute to realize who this is in reference.
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and all I gotta ask is did Laura come out as trans
CChuuni
Sure
CChuuni
He asks to be known as their -- wait let me count
CChuuni
7? 8th???? Namechange "but sticking to it! [this time]" and male pronouns and are using HRT for obviously problematic hormonal issues buuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuut
CChuuni
still refuses to see a single god damn counselor or therapist
CChuuni
It does seem like
CChuuni
To put it as nicely as possible
CChuuni
Their issues will not be remotely fixed by transitioning, only exacerbated, and at WORSE: it does seem like another hystrionic attention-grab buuuuuuuut hey
CChuuni
the easiest way to deal with that is just be blase and ngaff
CChuuni
Same with their being 1) a nun 2) asexual 3) a lesbian 4) all those things but also marrying a man ??? 5) Pagan 6) A voodoo witch but for realz guys (without actually doing any research and just making shit up and using it as an excuse to irritate anyone over 15 on all branches of family) 7) all the other stunts etc.
CChuuni
Also their last like 3 namechanges have been from Supernatural, but they're currently going with "Adam" and I'm like "Good Omens...."
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good for them I guess
CChuuni
I'm just saying transitioning is a big deal and extra therapy is good for you
CChuuni
Not that I think they're human so there's that
Whatson
Transitioning and doctor-assisted suicide: good times to ask them "are you really really really really sure?"
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as a transitioning trans guy if the answer to that question isn't an exasperated yes every time you get asked that, then
CChuuni
CChuuni
my eyebrows raised so hard at the Doctor who told her parents it was all reversible
CChuuni
Not told Adam
CChuuni
Adam is 31 and can legally do this to themselves etc.
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to be fair, somethings are reversible.
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not everything, but somethings.
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but, like she said, the voice change isn't one of them.
CChuuni
My Dad: "Don't you have to have childhood inclinations towards wanting to gender reverse? Didn't literally everyone ever say CC would get a gender swap and Laura was fine with dresses?????"
CC: TBF Those are completely unrelated things. I'm just a crossdresser, and no, you don't have to have known from childhood your gender was off but we all know her mental
CChuuni
state doesn't make this any better?
CChuuni
ya
CChuuni
Dad also finally managed to convince me I can't get tattoos :T
CChuuni
OH RELATED
CChuuni
He and Moosey are resistant to pnuemonia \o/ which is good since it affects men more WHICH I DID NOT AT ALL KNOW AND IS ODD TO ME
Whatson
I have questions
Whatson
Did this person decide on going ahead with this procedure?
CChuuni
They are only doing HRT so far as I know
CChuuni
I don't talk to them directly so eh
CChuuni
and name-wise with family/friends
CChuuni
and pronouns
CChuuni
I don't think they've even bothered switching legal names which tbf, is expensive af and difficult af in MA
CChuuni
My issue is really just the
CChuuni
they need to be in therapy
CChuuni
Moosey worries they'll be MORE violent but
CChuuni
I'm not sure since it's less the testosterone and more everything else and people on HRT actually DO tend to get less mental/psycho buuuut
CChuuni
eh
CChuuni
I tend to be more "What worse can it get" Moosey is very mindful it can always get worse
Whatson
Second question: why are you still interacting with this person?
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uhhhh moosey might be onto something.
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if they're already aggressive without testosterone
CChuuni
Very
CChuuni
And I do not directly, as I said
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testosterone can just make that so much worse.
CChuuni
That's his fear
CChuuni
We don't have to deal with them so eh
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I can attest to the fact that it can make you go aggro over nothing
Whatson
Third question: why can't you get tattoos?
CChuuni
Nitrous oxide
Whatson
ehhhh
CChuuni
Both my parents have heavy amounts of nitrous oxide in their blood = low blood pressure for all 4 of us, bruise REALLY EASILY, lung problems (aaayyy), HEADACHES (ayyy)
CChuuni
And it makes tattoos dangerous for us because our bodies (coupled with my EDS) are waaaay more likely to freak out and be like "AHHHHHHHH INVADER"
CChuuni
idk I am shit at explaining it because I am not a chemist
CChuuni
ask him
Whatson
oh
Whatson
https://images.plurk.com/4Dre9zqpWFvRKiSFLlHM6t.png
Exacerangutan
........ngl there were a couple of points in the article when I wondered if they weren't describing high-functioning BPD >_>
Exacerangutan
like, the sense of "I don't really want to transition I just want to change and then when I've changed I'm sure that's what I'll have wanted!!" sounds very BPD to me
Exacerangutan
at least the way I think of BPD involves a lot of Discomfort In Any Identity
Exacerangutan
then again there's no reason it has to be just one thing, people are complicated
CChuuni
Yes
CChuuni
Wrt sibling with clear bpd
I'm kind of not happy about Luffy-bro going to Disney world for in FL and bringing me back Coronachan
CChuuni
At first I thought it was immediately, noooooo they're still waiting for money -- which again, use it for rent and shit you dumb mofos but
CChuuni
And the longer they take, the more it spreads....
CChuuni
The more my trepidation grows...
CChuuni
Oh that's fantastic. Super fucking fantastic. He went to NYC
MooseChangerPat
I'm kind of thinking of saying at this point that we're not taking him back
Whatson
Uh, and you want me to visit?
MooseChangerPat
CChuuni
Maybe I'm overreacting?
CChuuni
Then again, luffy-bro himself is weak to lung problems JUST AS MUCH AS ME
CChuuni
I picked up fucking staph from a god dn hospital
Whatson
This sounds like a bad idea
CChuuni
Adam is the fucking moron who was convinced I was dying from Coronavirus because I went through the exact same things where's all that fucking concern now?!?
CChuuni
Whatson : you haven't gone to NYC or long island since it started like wildfire
Whatson
Ehhhh
CChuuni
As long as you aren't coughing or feverish, yes. But I'm talking to my parents about literally not letting Luffy-bro back until a 3week quarantine because he has asthma like me, allergies, coughs at min. Daily so how would we know?
CChuuni
This is so freaking stupid too
CChuuni
I'm really anfry
CChuuni
I will call moosey
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