Roach
[cw: for mild homophobia] Sooo, I realized I haven't actually talked much about Jack being bi/pan
Roach
Hadn’t seen much point in focusing on it before now, since I didn't see it being something I was likely to explore a lot.
Roach
But with the increase of other LGBT+ teens in the ranks (and if Adam really does get a kind of LGBT+ teens group going), there’s more of a chance of him actually addressing it head on.
Roach
So I’ma talk about it!
Roach
For those who are cannon blind, while it's never said outright (because it was a kids show that came out between 2003-2006) and therefore not strictly cannon, Jack was heavily insinuated to be either bi or pan.
Roach
Both in that he developed blatant crushes on both women and men pretty equally, and in that the show and other characters occasionally like to snicker about it, or throw around not so subtle innuendo.
Roach
(For anyone who might decide to watch it in the future, it never gets too bad but it does occasionally throw a few terms his way that could be construed as mildly(?) derogatory. )
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(More often coded language with double meanings, that may or may not have been accidental, then direct insults on his sexuality. Again, nothing too bad imo, though ymmv, but this show was very much a product of its time.)
Roach
Some people also interpret him as being somewhere on the gender queer spectrum. I don't know how comfortable I feel about taking liberties with that. I’ve seen some real bad takes in the fandom on both sides of the argument and that kind of soured me on taking a firm stance.
Roach
But going into headcanon territory, I plan on playing him as still figuring himself out.
Roach
He doesn’t really have a solid label for what he is, isn’t sure if he wants one. And while he doesn’t consider himself in the closet, he’s surprisingly a bit cautious about actually being out.
tinybro
👀
Roach
How he talks about it and how open he is will depend entirely on who he’s with and how comfortable he is around them. It’s one of the few things he’s weirdly non-confrontational about, largely because it’s one of the few things about himself he’s not all the way comfortable with yet.
Roach
He’ll openly flirt with guys if they flirt with him first but he’s not big on instigating flirting with men the way he does with women. Tends to default to uselessly fawning and trying to grab their attention, do things for them that he hopes will make them like him.
Roach
Just a little more cautious with guys, and more likely to get nervous or shirty if anyone calls him on the fawning thing, particularly in a teasing way. He won’t outright deny it but probably won’t admit to it either, not unless there's an actual relationship to admit to.
Roach
He's also not really open about it with his parents. Again, not exactly hiding it (they pretty much already know) but it's very much a not spoken of thing. Like with most things about Jack that they don't approve of, they just pointedly ignore it.
Roach
I interpret them as being very firm believers in the idea that 'attention only encourages the behavior' in many things, not just this.
Roach
The most they've acknowledged it was very indirectly informing him that it was okay for now, so long as it doesn't get into the public eye.
Roach
But to get it out of his system while he can, because he will grow up, he will put all this villain stuff (and 'other behaviors') behind him, he will inherit their company, he will have a 'proper family', and he will give them a legacy.
Roach
And that's all there is to it.
Roach
That’s probably not going to come up in rp much if at all, unless people are okay with that turning up in a memshare. It’s way too based in headcanon for me to feel comfortable bringing it to the table much, and it’s not something he’s likely to want to share on purpose.
Roach
But I guess, like, that’s going to be a base for some of his behavior and why he’s “open” but more quiet and cautious about it then one might think someone with his rebellious streak would be.
Roach
And, I don't really know how to properly segue out of that depressing bit in to this, but uh...now I'm gonna roast Jack on his terrible taste in crushes.
Roach
Then again as funny as it is to me, it's also kinda sad.
tinybro
it's okay jack, terrible crushes are practically a teenage rite of passage
Roach
Part of me wishes at some point, through enough memshare stuff or just Jack continuing to making terrible choices in game where people can see it playing out in real time, someone sees a pattern forming and takes him to the side to have a talk.
Roach
Oh god, he and Dave might actually have that in common huh? Based on some of the ominous things you've said about his flirting habits.
Roach
Maybe they can have a competition.
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this'll be interesting for Catra + Adora because like. As far as we can tell Etheria has no taboo about being any kind of queer
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So Catra will 100% openly talk about how pretty she finds certain girls or whatever
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or how she's not sure whether her thing for Adora is like. Really just friendship deep or something else
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you know once she opens up a bit
Roach
His crushes include, one of the monks who beats his ass on the daily, Clay's sister (who I'm convinced was the leader of a lesbian biker gang), a thousand something year old evil warlord who turns in to a giant lizard monster and regularly treats him like garbage,
Roach
a thousand something frozen bad ass mermaid hunter, and the mermaid (only after he found out she was evil and turned into a man eating monster. Quote: "She's quirky.")
Zita
Jack you poor, poor disaster
Throck
I play Soren as bi because why not and literally the only thing we get is him thinking (incorrectly) Rayla is into him because...because they fought? Plus some of his muttering about Prince Kasem was like...
Throck
"You think you're so great, with your quietness, rugged battle stance, and your horse with kind eyes!"
Roach
i stay silly :3 I think when they open up to each other more, Catra's definitly going to be one of the people Jack's very open about, and comfortable with talking about that stuff with. But I do feel bad about Catra having to figure that out about this world.
Zita
Kevin isn't someone you'd expect to be chill and supportive about this but it turns out that when you are dead, the world is full of so many things that are so much scarier than being on the wrong side of weird macho bullshit
Zita
Kevin looks like he'd be an asshole and yet...
Throck
And since his universe has absolutely no issues at all with queerness I kinda figure it's never come up because it really is no big deal and he's been too preoccupied with other stuff (and there's been no one shippable since he's surrounded by siblings and sibling-like friends) so it hasn't come up
Throck
So he's going to be like super open about it when it DOES come up.
Roach
Zita Aw Kevin. I think unfortunately Jack would be more cautious about being open with that around Kevin at first, more just because you never really know, and he'll probably feel a little foolish about it the more he get's to know him.
Throck
And just very like "Everybody's hot. All the time. Also, keeping this bod away from any gender would just be cruel."
Throck
https://66.media.tumblr.com/48f21d328172140934a7226adbeea714/tumblr_pndgd7LhjD1wrb3z2o1_500.gif
Throck
So it'll be interesting to have Jack against that much blistering bi confidence
tinybro
"the ominous things you've said about his flirting habits" agdhflsldhja
Zita
Kevin's very 90s/early 00s skatebro/gamer culture so it's extremely fair to assume
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tbh i read catra as lesbian bc like
Roach
atippleofyourtears Oh my god Soren!
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noelle stevenson basically said everyone is queer unless stated otherwise
Throck
and he will not get why anyone would be self conscious about it like people have opinions about someone being queer? who even does that
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right? Like, who does that?
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these poor innocent teenagers
Throck
One of like the big esteemed generals (like THE big general) is queer, there's been queer queens and leaders of nations, what is UP with these other worlds??
Roach
atippleofyourtears share some of that bi confidence with him, please! but for real, I think after he's settles in with the group some, he probably will open up more and become more confident cuz their such a good bunch for that.
Throck
Even if he thinks Jack's kind of a twerpy little evil wannabe, he'd never mock that if he was self conscious
Roach
Pft! At least until Mac comes in the room, then he'd probably be shutting right back up again.
Throck
Listen, there's got to be some twerpy smartbrained little weasel person out there for you, male or female or something else, that's just as weasely and evil as you
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Catra miiight give him some ribbing because uh Catra
Roach
Cuz I think he would get Mac is just in the closet and overcompensating (which is the only reason he just kind of deals cuz he gets it), but it doesn't make it any easier to deal with and he doesn't want to be in the cross fire, cuz he just...can't with that.
Zita
Kevin will dip if the group wants to talk about this a lot because it starts to become uncomfortable for him. He didn't have himself all figured out before he died and what's left of his potential to feel this kind of emotion about other people is just ??????
Zita
He's happy to be another voice of "you should get to feel safe about who you are and what you feel" but if it becomes a thing for him to share in, he can't and will get out of there
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aw kevin :<
Roach
i stay silly :3 Man I love Noelle for that, and that's okay. He can take the ribbing, at least it's coming from a place of semi solidarity, it way better than coming from you're straight frenemies or judgmental ghost mom.
Roach
atippleofyourtears "twerpy smartbrained little weasel person" Oh god, if only that was the kind of person he was into. T-T
Zita
Mac's one Kevin has a lot of thoughts about because he knows he can't talk Mac into making peace with himself and he doesn't think any of them probably can, so he will be kind to him but he won't try to push Mac to name it because it would be stressful and unproductive for all concerned probably
Throck
Soren just assumes because he's very dedicated to his shtick
tinybro
dave flirting comes in one of two varieties:
tinybro
"dancing around the issue for ten fucking years with a dude i'm clearly in love with"
tinybro
and this shit https://images.plurk.com/65U4Rdbj68EB1E9l6a5cx5.jpg
Zita
iirc Jack's kind of more on "dramatic disasters who can kick his ass" based upon the evidence
Roach
Zita Oh god, kevin. T-T I like to think Jack's going to catch on to that eventually, and not be sure if it's a vampire thing or a Kevin thing, but also probably not question it, because that's his business and if he want's to talk about he will, if he doesn't then he shouldn't have to. Because he deserves to be comfortable, too.
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Catra is firmly in "dumb jocks who can bench me" territory
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/stares at both Adora and Scorpia
Roach
And man, yeah, that's really right on the mark.
Zita
Yeah, Kevin just kind of politely but firmly keeps people out of his Romance Problems zone because it's directly related to his most central trauma and nobody else should have to put up with that.
Zita
at least in kevin's view
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From an interview with GLAAD:
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She-Ra has always been a very queer world and a very queer story. This is a world where almost all of your mains are women. What does that mean for gender? What does that mean for sexuality and this fantasy sci-fi planet?
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Why would our characters follow the "rules" of our world, the biases that we've built up in our world? What if we just started from the grounds that this is a world with a really rich tapestry of experiences and that includes sexuality, that includes gender.
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it's about double trouble but still
Creator of 'She-Ra and the Princesses of Power' Noel...
Roach
tinybro oh WOW Dave, smooth!
Zita
Dave wants everyone to believe he is cool but, regrettably, he is Dave
Roach
PFT!
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so catra's response to anyone being a dick about anyone's gender ID or sexuality would be like ????
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bc she's the bad guy and SHE respects it???
Zita
Cayde's kinda in this camp but like, the Last City knows enough about human history that it's more "haha oh wow, this is dinosaur times stuff" to him
Roach
i stay silly :3 Jack would be right there with her on that!
Zita
(Also probably going to not talk about it much because it ain't none of y'all's business as far as Cayde is concerned)
Roach
That's fair Cayde.
Zita
Everybody else seems to have this on lock so he can just not invite anyone to imagine any aspects of his private life that he is busy not having, it's fine.
tinybro
this is not even the worst but admittedly the worst is all variations of accidentally hitting on vaguely maternal figures which, combined with the fact that he comes out as 100% gay after a few years of going "ok i'm bi" makes me think it's less about sincerely being into hot moms and more a deeply repressed desire for a mom in general lol 🙃
tinybro
https://images.plurk.com/6EARHjcWJ2dlKTocj2TfYt.jpg save him from himself please
Zita
that 100% tracks imo
Zita
poor kid
Throck
It's dinosaur times to Brainy too.
Throck
He was stuck in the 21st century a bit and a lot of that had the legion like "hahaha wow"
Zita
(Also I am somewhat oocly uncomfortable ending up in extended ic discussions of stuff like this but like, I can manage myself I'll be fine)
Throck
They were so disgusted by all the meat eating like the terrible vegans they are
Throck
And just SHOCKED to find homeless people
Zita
1v1 conversations I'm more okay with but if we have big comm discussions I'll probably be out.
Roach
tinybro Oh HEy! He and Dave kinda have that in common! -Hits on the same dude he's contently trying to make his replacement Dad, cuz that's not weird!- Jack has a lot of complicated feeling about Chase in general...
Zita
atippleofyourtears: excuse u brainy don't speak for all futures here, animals are delicious
tinybro
the worst "same hat!!" moment in history lmao
Zita
three second rule, jack
Roach
Zita that's understandable
tinybro
if someone ever points it out to them dave just makes that face like "why is this the point of commonality and why would you be cruel enough to bring it up oh my god"
Throck
So he's aware of how homophobic earth was (I figure not even his planet because we see none of it and they've been set in their ways for millenia) but it's definitely lolol people banging rocks together, gotta endurance hunt an antelope with a stick
Throck
brb after hating on gays going to go burn a witch because the crops failed
Roach
tinybro Yeah, Jack wouldn't be too happy about that either.
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Catra over like
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"what's meat"
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"we just had ration bars"
Zita
Kevin just misses food
Zita
Also lmao literal blood drinking vampire vs space vegans
Zita
"Sorry dudes I kind of got a condition?"
Throck
Hey they have lab grown meat for the carnivores so that's fine, it's eating it when you don't have to
Throck
(Brainy's going to haaate all the cafeteria food. "Mystery meat? I have to eat it without even knowing what kind meat is is??")
Throck
He won't trust the meat bc Jorgmund doesn't seem above soylent greening it up
Throck
anyway he'll also be another reinforcing "lol it's not a big deal" casually bi guy
Roach
("If it makes you feel any better, part of the mystery is how much of that is actually meat")
tinybro
i like to think this is a whole discussion or support group or smth that comes up eventually and phos is just "..............what"
Zita
"okay so that thing i said about missing food, i don't miss this food at all"
Throck
MAybe willing to give a future take on it and also highlght the absurdity of holding anyone to that standard when Earth has a kajillion cultures that have different takes, and the galaxies and universes do too so who is anyone to say it's morally wrong when it hurts no one
Throck
It's cool.
tinybro
they don't get gender/sex/sexual attraction to begin with and y'all are telling then there's this whole extra layer to it of some people arbitrarily deciding some variations on all that are right or wrong
Throck
Accept the gay and you too can possibly smooch blonde hunks
Zita
tinybro : bless phos honestly
Zita
they have no context for any of this
tinybro
at least if someone tried to explain via the birds and the bees they could potentially follow that because bugs and birds are some of the only other life on earth
Roach
aww. phos is just having so much confusing shit thrown at them, ALL the time.
Roach
atippleofyourtears Seeing so many adults just being real comfortable with their sexuality and their relationships, will probably help a lot, in and of it's self, since that's not something he's used to seeing. He's coming from a world that's past us technologically, but socially is stuck in 2003-2006.
Zita
new hire crew is going to be so very very gay
Roach
Also, dudes, serious, with all the mentors here, someone please take this kid to the side and tell him to stop hitting on grown ass adults.
Zita
....Kevin might actually
Roach
Zita oh yeah, it's going to be like night and day for him.
Roach
Bless you Kevin
Zita
Like if you also want to get into shit re: thousand year old people, Kevin is your dude
Roach
true! he would know his shit when it comes to that
Roach
Jack asks the uncomfortable question "...Could you maybe hook me up wi-" "Let me stop you there, dude."
Zita
Jack what is with you and people who sound like they just hurt you all the time
Roach
That is an excellent way to put that
Roach
I don't think he's ever even critically thought about it.
Zita
man that might come down to "Do you think you just deserve to be hurt?"
Roach
I have a feeling that's going to be a rough conversation, but I really want to play with that. I think it's something he seriously needs to hear, particularly from someone like Kevin who hasn't gone out of their way to hurt him, and does seem to genuinely care about him as a friend.
Roach
It's hard to just pass it off as "you're just trying to mess with me".
Roach
And putting it in that way in particular would probably hit him like a train.
Zita
I'd be 100% on board to do that sometime!
Zita
That's one of the things that will be confusing and frustrating about being friends with Jack because first of all being friends with Jack is a confusing and frustrating endeavor, but also like... Bro you are too smart for the self-destructiveness to be all accidental.
Zita
Find a spot to fit that conversation into this CR somewhere down the line and I'm there
Roach
Awesome! I'm really hoping there will be a cohesive way to make that happen sometime down the line
Roll Fizzlebeef
Even the cat is bi.
Roach
Salem: -says that-
Jack: "This just in, Niels is a Bi icon."
Dᴀᴍɴᴇᴅ Sᴀʀᴛᴏʀɪs
all these babies
Dᴀᴍɴᴇᴅ Sᴀʀᴛᴏʀɪs
Also lucky for jack unless he’s like actively saying to Mac “I want to bang a dude because I am sexually attracted to dudes” it’s probably going to fly over Mac’s head, he doesn’t really pick up on those cues (which is also why he’s so obvious to everyone), he’s accustomed to the gang which is v homoerotic, touch-heavy and boundary-ignoring between the guys
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So jack won’t have to work too hard to avoid the surefire incoherent hypocritical projection-filled biblethumping lecture
Throck
Peter'd also be willing to be like "nooononononono" over crushing on adults
Throck
...fuck Crowley would too which
Throck
You said he'd kind of puppy dog over
Throck
Just going like "Oh heeeeaven to the nope" about it
Throck
And just make it clear that there are a lot of absolutely disgusting people that would take advantage of it, stop, do not pass go
Throck
Because like he really loves humanity but he's got absolutely no illusions over how fucking rotten they can be
Throck
He's also seen them a lot at their worst. there is no gross low humanity will not sink to.
Juliet
so tbh I lowkey hate that bryke threw Homophobia into A:TLA as a theme, only because i like to get away from homophobia in fiction like give me some relief ffs
Juliet
but also because I headcanon Zuko as a solid leaning-towards-men bisexual and he has so many other things to be personally insecure about without throwing "great grandpa said Homophobic Rights" into the mix
Juliet
I'm just not into exploring internalized homophobia in fiction and I'd like to be able to skip that step with Zuzu! he has so many other problems already!!!
Juliet
anyway I get around that exactly that way, he realized he was into dudes early on, but between being a mediocre firebender compared to Azula, being too sensitive and empathetic compared to Azula, and his political status guaranteeing that he would have 1) a wife so he could have 2) an heir whether he was into it or not, it just didnt seem important enough to
Juliet
dwell on.
Juliet
anyway now hes his own firelord and he can do what he wants and maybe what he wants is to forget what Great Grandpa said and have his summer fling
Juliet
so he can still come at Jack with "it's not a big deal." unfortunately hes coming at it from the "you probably have real problems to worry about" side.
Juliet
watch all these sunshine kids like "it's okay! its okay to be gay!" with Zuko the living storm cloud following behind with "you should save your worrying for your actual problems that you definitely have"
Throck
such a ray of sunshine
Juliet
zuko, deadpan: I draw my power from the sun.
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"so if I like, fight at you night does that give me an advantage? asking for a friend."
tinybro
(the friend is soren)
Zita
Tfw Kevin is allergic to both of Juliet's characters
Juliet
"NO" yes
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