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[Quotes] I'm reading Stay Sexy and Don't Get Murdered and let me just say everyone should read this whether they're fans of My Favorite Murder or not because the first chapter is all about Georgie Hardstark and how she was put in an inappropriate position at the age of 19 by a man twice her age
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and coming to terms with it, and how not being polite in shitty / uncomfortable situations has empowered her
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but also
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https://images.plurk.com/91aGyXxZ4VAdYiWjFVauO.jpg mad Katrina vibes
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ᴄᴜʙᴇ ᴅᴀᴅᴅʏ relevant to your interests
ᴄᴜʙᴇ ᴅᴀᴅᴅʏ
!!!!
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GOOD
vampiricist
Erik has gotten into a fight with at least two of the farm’s geese true/false
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look everyone fights the geese
vampiricist
Nadir is wise enough to avoid them, Erik cusses them out in like four languages and tries to fistfight them. COME AT ME GEESE
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https://images.plurk.com/7qdTvYA2V5mzBXrjGuqlYK.jpg
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discussing their "fuck politeness" philosophy
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"I bet your freckles look really good on you and you know it, and that's why you're so chill."
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karen ;.;
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oooffff
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"If you have a problem, don't just confide in whoever wanders into your office. Save it for a person who cares about your well-being...Figure out who your clutch-five friends are and drop your expectations of everyone else."
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fucking
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this
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this whole chapter is about not putting your shit on other people, reading the room when your friends who usually accept your shit might not be willing to
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and just being empathetic
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"Save the shitstorm for every fifth visit. Bring something else to the table."
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"...the burnout rate for friends listening to you go on and on...is very, VERY high"
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a fucking men
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https://images.plurk.com/6dLXBCmg5cPoeA3KxHy0Mc.jpg https://images.plurk.com/6cjaFVWfrSLcOov1qURlny.jpg THiiIiiIIIIIssssssss
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Connect with people on things that interest them if you want to build relationships
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god this book is so good and the peppering of "fuck" makes it better
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nnnnnnnnnNNNN this story about Georgia meeting Ray Bradbury
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I'ma cry
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miles you ass you need to borrow this
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from me
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nnnnn Karen talks more about your "inner circle" friends and how most people only have one to five
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and I keep thinking about the like two or three people I would call my "clutch-five" friends
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Like people I know for a fucking fact would drive me to the airport or pick me up off the floor when I'm not good, and who I can talk to about anything
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and then people I talk to about personal shit that I should not talk to about personal shit
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or pour energy into
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this is a self-help book
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this is btw in a section about cult religions
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"Figure out who you are, what you stand for, and who you love. Put them in your inner circle. Make sure they're smart and strong andthat they love you. Be a good friend to them so they stick by you."
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thinking about Alex every damn minute of this
Exacerangutan
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"Life is not a meritocracy. If you show up, even in the most perfect human form, you will get your heart broken...That's part of the deal."
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"No one gets out unscathed, unless they stay home. But then you just get scathed in a different way...You get scathed with loneliness."
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big me vibes
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big Treavor vibes
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Exacerangutan
strong statement on why to not show up at all, says my depression
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;.; big paul vibes too then
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/wraps in hugs
Exacerangutan
Exacerangutan
whenever I hear this sort of thing I'm reminded of a joke about an optimist and a pessimist
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where the optimist says "you know, this is the best of all possible worlds!"
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and the pessimist says "shit... you're right..."
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haaaaa :c
miles you ass
hey! y u think of me there
miles you ass
Also yes I just heard about this and I must read it
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you my clutch five friend
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;.;
miles you ass
and u mine /clutch
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