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mattnificent will be drunk any moment now, ask me anything
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the cocaine bombs haven't hit yet
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nut337
If you could have the powers but not responsibilities of one Avenger from the MCU which would it be?
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if those powers include depth perception, Vision
dove889
What's the least proud you've been in the bedroom. Go.
nut337
Energy blasts are your thing?
brandy13
that drink sounds absolutely disgusting but you sure will be drunk!
brandy13
haha I am also drinking tonight but just wine + a related anon name
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altering my density so I can fly or phase through solid objects
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energy blasts are just a bonus
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least proud? i am not parsing what this means in context or i would have no shame about answering
dove889
I guess... a time you were embarrassed in the bedroom, or tried something that didn't work out
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I have tried many, many things that did not work, but I do not really get embarrassed about weird, kinky, experimental sex?
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let me think. once while I was subbing I fell so deep in subspace I fell asleep?
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I think the number one "did not work" has to be the morning after a threesome where a lesbian friend of mine and I tried to have sex without a girl between us and it did not function at all for either of us
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but like, I don't regret that? we had fun the night before and it was a failure in good faith, with laughter
dove889
Oof, that's rough. I'm glad it was all right in the end though. Sounds like a fun time when all was said and done.
dove889
Sorry that it didn't work out though.
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yeah! like, we were just like "what the hell, why not try?" and when it became obvious that it was not gonna work, we stopped.
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healthy, consent-positive sex is rarely more embarrassing than losing the rules to a board game. for me, anyway?
dove889
That sounds like a win-win scenario all around, except maybe that you two didn't have fun. But better off knowing than without that question floating over your heads.
dove889
Good on you for trying though. Thank you for sharing that.
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you are very welcome.
nut337
how do you find people who are around you and are kink friendly and safe? i don't know how.
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Oh man. Um. There are a lot of ways? I can probably help more if you DM me when I am sober. Mostly I am really open about my orientation, openness, and lifestyle and have a lot of friends of long standing who are likewise. Having a FetLife account to look up local public events
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(like munches and other get-to-know people stuff in public places) has helped, but mostly just
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people who know me feel able to express to me if they are interested in me and we go from there
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tbh sillyass drunk AMA plurks have probably done more to help me find partners than anything else
lark893
“Got so deep in subspace i fell asleep” god BLESS
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IT WAS A LITTLE EMBARRASSING but it was a real good nap
dove889
That is adorable.
nut337
yeah there's nothing on fetlife in my area
nut337
nearest is an hour and a half away
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dang. Um, depending on your area & interests, I may know other ways to find people? but obviously I don't want to out you in this plurk so like. DM me if you would like? I will be all business.
nut337
<3
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Meetup also often has groups. depends on if you are looking for kink, polyam, bdsm, dating, casual hookups? like, different things you are into often are on different social media; how much you need physical presence vs online, etc
lark893
I once got so floaty in subspace i went nonverbal and spacey and scared my dom cause we were new to each other. I totally could have drifted off like that so I get you
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i hear you
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I am now sober