օJεssօ
The wife beater two doors down finally dropped dead. Good riddance! ✌🏻
Mysti
:-o
օJεssօ
Mysti : he and his son get beyond wasted and beat the wife all the time. Cops refuse to do anything because “they didn’t witness it”.
օJεssօ
Mysti : this has been going on for several years
Mysti
Oh my gosh. I'm praying for the wife. Living through abuse is awful.
օJεssօ
Mysti : she seems to like it
Mysti
It's not always that easy when you are talking about domestic violence. Even when someone has an "out" to leave, it doesn't mean they don't fear being killed if they do. I'm speaking from very personal experience here. It took over 1,000 miles and a shit ton of courage for me and my boys to be free and safe from my ex-husband.
Kaiden
yikes! that poor woman
Kaiden
Mysti : yes. and for some the hell you know is still less scarier than starting over
օJεssօ
Mysti : Kaiden : she laughs at the cops when they tell her she’s nuts for staying there. She picks fights to get beaten. Everyone on the block knows how dysfunctional they are
Mysti
I hope she gets mental help for the traumas she's obviously sustained through the years. :'-(
օJεssօ
Mysti : I just hope the son doesn’t continue the beatings on his own. Because for years he tried to stop his father and then his father turned him into an alcoholic like him and got the son to join him
Mysti
Me, too.
օJεssօ
Mysti : I came home a little later last night from doing last minute Xmas shopping touch ups and the house was vacant and dark like those movies where the house is left behind for years and years, strangest thing
Mysti
That is eerie.
օJεssօ
Mysti : I’ll keep you posted
Kaiden
creepy
Mysti
Sounds good!
Brena
I have worked with several women over with domestic abuse backgrounds, it's not as easy as it seems to leave those types of relationships. Her laughing at cops when they try to intervene is often a way she aligns with the abuser in hope of pleasing them so there will less abuse following the cops being there. It's a survival skill for them.
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Brena : no I mean this was a different kind of thing with her. She’s starting it for herself then laughing and hinting she’d prefer to be abused and what not it’s weird.
օJεssօ
Brena : it’s not your average domestic thing
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