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[nb body problems]
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Man, social dysphoria is a fuckin trip
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exiting work and just suddenly hit with the thought of
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"people look at my tits and label me a woman" and it bugged me all the way on the walk back home
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but the second I'm just surrounded by dogs in an otherwise empty house
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who i can guarantee to you do not give a Single Solitary Yeeping Fuck about gender
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tits out jeans on is the look
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like I'm otherwise fine with the existence of boobs??? but people making asumptions off of the boobs is No
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when will the future come where I can just wear no shirts and this is both acceptable and no one will make assumptions
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
This is not me at all, but people as a whole are ignorant, I've found.
ArtIsArt
I get it and I'm cis. Except for me it's people see my big boobs and assume I'm dtf.
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
Same omg
ArtIsArt
And I am ace. I hate it.
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
Again, people are ignorant?? lol
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
Or my favorite "Oh look at what she's wearing, she must want attention~" when literally anything I wear that isn't like.... nine sizes too large will call attention to the boobs??
ArtIsArt
EXACTLY.
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
It's like "Yea, they're there. I can't exactly just magically pop them off for everyone's convenience/peace of mind?" xD
ArtIsArt
I can't go out in cute clothes without fearing The (usually) Male Gaze (TM).
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
This is why I hate people? lol
𝔳𝔢𝔫𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔡𝔦 𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔦𝔷𝔢
this is exactly the problem I had with that "modesty poncho" prom story that was circulating a while back
ArtIsArt
It's so annoying!
𝔳𝔢𝔫𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔡𝔦 𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔦𝔷𝔢
in theory, the idea of protecting young girls from being sexualized is not bad. however, girls with big boobs are always going to get singled out for things that are literally outside of their control, purely because of other people around them.
𝔳𝔢𝔫𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔡𝔦 𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔦𝔷𝔢
maybe the problem is our attitudes about women's bodies in general, not what the girls are wearing?
𝔳𝔢𝔫𝔡𝔯𝔢𝔡𝔦 𝔱𝔯𝔢𝔦𝔷𝔢
radical thought, I know
ArtIsArt
Agreed whole-heartedly.
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
Exactly.
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While this is all legit, it's kind of straying from my initial dysphoria post, so let's cut it off here, okay?
ƒεα૨ℓεα∂ε૨
Sorry! It wasn't what I was trying to do.
ArtIsArt
Ok, sorry!
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ggggggod, this but with my hips
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I'm just so fucking constantly aware of how my figure marks my gender for other people
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it's the woooorst
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why can't shapeshifting powers exist, james
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I like the Always Human idea..... nanobots just chaging how we look whenever
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