and literally everyone is on my Mom's side including my sister's lawyer which is magical she has a lawyer She won't go to therapy, she says her place is literally unlivable right now (burst pipes) but she got a lawyer
For YEARS she's been like "I want my money separated, I don't want it set aside to protect me from myself" and for the last year we all said "LET HER HAVE IT CUT THE UMBILICAL CORD SHE IS STRANGLING YOU WITH"
all just "noooooooooooooo but I don't have the proof that I can handle it yet!!! and I can't get my roommate to be my rep.!!!!" and my Mom basically went "YOU'VE HAD A YEAR. FFS"
her own lawyer straight out said she wouldn't deal with my sis' bullshit until she got into therapy and had proof of it YANNO LIKE SHE IS FUCKING SUPPOSED TO BE DOING :V
or she has to have an actually mentally fit person take over but she went so far out of her way to prove how my Mom couldn't be ~~~trusted~~~~ It's like "okay. Good job. "
She is the only person who can fetch the thing but you are not going to get what you asked for 9/10 times and you will have 9 other WTF AND WHYYYYY things first
but this is why I was doing my Mom's checking when I was a kid until I was like "No I am serious about moving out, you need to start handling this without me now"
I just saved a bunch of money on my car insurance that I don't even have because I can't drive because migraines LAWL