That moment you finally realize, 'Oh, this isn't just an intense interest in something. This is a sexual fetish.'

I know I'm a dodo to realize this so slowly, but you must understand I'm not a very sexual person to begin with. Low sexual drive, low desire, low everything.

So kinks and fetishes are usually interesting to me only in a very abstract way.

But today, watching a hairstyling video on YT, it finally hit me.

I'm like 'Oh, I don't just like watching these videos because they interest me. I LIKE THEM BECAUSE I'M SEXUALLY TURNED ON BY WATCHING SOMEONE'S HAIR GET DONE.'

The little lightbulb in my head literally turned on and went ding.

So yeah, new thing that turns me on is watching someone's hair get done or thoughts of someone playing with my own hair. Whodathunkit?

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..wow, posting without caffiene..I was going to say 'to be fair', there's a good reason why old paints of women brushing their hair was considered 'sensual

playing with hair is a sort of massage. So it makes sense to me.

good on you :|b always nice to learn something new like that about yourself

Brushing hair is super relaxing too

yeah I trawl those videos for ASMR purposes, but I can see that working for a fetish as well. My personal favorites are the ones of people who roleplay as hairdressers, if that works for you