Things I Hate That My Best Friend Does: make plans and then turn up an hour and a half late with no warning

Like she normally comes at like 9:30-10? But I heard nothing from her ao I had to text her at quarter after 10

And she was like "oh yeah we'll be on our way as soon as Amber gets her shoes on" like....

You're 15 minutes past when you normally GET HERE and you haven't even left?? And you didn't think to text???

It's gonna take her half an hour just to get here, like what the fuck, I've been here in this dress in this makeup ready to go for hours

Like we MIGHT get there by 11. Might.

Am I unreasonable for being cranky about this kind of stuff? Like it just feels disrespectful

I get that shit comes up but she does this consistently to me, like, how hard is a quick "gonna be a bit late" text??

No, it's very inconsiderate

Like I can't say anything about it to her either because she always has an excuse that makes me look like the jerk

'yo give me a heads up if you're late' is pretty reasonable regardless of the excuse, I think