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[lgbt/gender???] so maybe this should go in my feelings plurk but
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maybe I should take it as a sign that I get super ridiculously flattered when I spot a friend referring to me as "they" in a plurk
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and then I tell stick and senri about it
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and then I immediately burst into tears when they go "maybe we should just do that all the time!" "yeah, let's start doing that!"
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my heart burst a little, apparently
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THIS SEEMS TO BE A THING, I GUESS
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idek
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nightmare.
oh darling ;; maybe you could? worst case scenario you just decide to go back to different pronouns
Kᴀʏʟᴀ
Aww yeah! If it makes you happy by all means
nightmare.
Kᴀʏʟᴀ
Tell people that's what you wanna be called
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I DONT EVEN KNOW
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pronouns are so weird
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I don't mind being called "she," even if it feels weird sometimes
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and I don't mind all of the female petnames that stick calls me on a regular basis
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khghj
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but then I find myself feeling all happy and gushy when called "they" and i just
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nightmare.
well . . . happy and gushy is a good thing
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yeah.. :'{
nightmare.
ALSO IDK i always feel like pet names are kinda a different kettle of fish. kerr is gq and she still likes all kinds of goofy femme-ish pet names, so.
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ohh, that's good to know
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I know there aren't any real "shoulds" for this kind of stuff
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but still
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I like knowing how other people do this
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oh man... and I went to my new doctor while in my binder and my boy clothes...
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and one of the first things she asked me is if my name was what I preferred to be called
nightmare.
oh my god WHAT A GOOD DOCTOR?
akatsuki
awww!
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I think she was wondering if I had a gender-neutral nickname or some other name
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aND THAT WAS SO NICE
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I love seattle sometimes, man
nightmare.
way to be, seattle
nightmare.
i'm really glad you had that experience ;;
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she didnt ask about pronouns, but that doesn't come up so much when talking to someone directly, I think
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youre more likely to use their name
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and so she did, and then immediately caught herself and went "OH, is that what you prefer to be called?"
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maybe she just does that for everybody but I still thought it was really nice ;;;;
zee art
awww that's a good doctor
zee art
also it sounds like you are super down with them/they pronouns, which i'm happy to use for you! the thing about pronouns is they're preference though, so you can turn to whichever feels best for you
zee art
there's no like pOINT OF NO RETURNNN
nightmare.
^^ this exactly
zee art
so basically i'll stick to them/they and just let me know if you want something else <3
turgle
ill gladly call you they/them!! :>
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you guys ;;;;;;;;;;;
Teeff
I promise to do my bestest to use they pronouns for you from now on <3
ɪᴍ ʙᴀʙᴀꜱʜᴏᴏᴋ
dude, i'm just glad you found something that fits so right for you.
ɪᴍ ʙᴀʙᴀꜱʜᴏᴏᴋ
That's fantastic.
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buuuuuuhhhhhh
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you really don't have to and I don't mind female pronouns really....g fdhjkgfhdjk
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turgle
but feeling happy and warm and good > not minding something
nightmare.
if it makes you feel good tho . . . your friends want to make you happy
turgle
soooooooooooooooooooooooooo
turgle
that'd be like saying, "i like when people are nice to me, but i don't mind it THAT MUCH if they splash around in mud and get it all over my clothes"
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Teeff
EXACTLY
Teeff
want you to feel good bb <3
dee#
u got it
u got it
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you guys
you guys
nightmare.
love u 
aj
YEAH darlin it's not like it's an inconvenience to make what we say different
𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
so the first time someone referred to me as they i got all gushy and emotional too
𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
like actually hearing it is
𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
it makes me really happy
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yeah??
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buuuh
𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
SO
aj
You wouldn't be inconvenienced if I said "hey! I prefer to go by Nicole instead of Autumn now, but i won't be bothered if you slip" would u
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as long as I could still call you Auto gfdhgjkdf
𝐛𝐢𝐠𝐛𝐚𝐛𝐲𝐜𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫.
i will gladly call you this
anime romulan
Echoing that I will happily use they/them <3
ғᴏxʏᴍᴏʀᴏɴ
what they said, noted to use that from now on
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wow guys, I really hadn't intended (or expected??) that to be the result of this plurk gfdhgjkfhjk
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I somehow hadn't even considered that as a possibility??
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anime romulan
dee#
lmao oh red
dee#
hugs
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you guys are hrat okay ;;;;;;;;
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......
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wow that was supposed to be "great"
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you guys are hrat too though
dee#
i wanna be hrat
nightmare.
i'm totally hrat
anime romulan
So hrat for you
dee#
turgle
too hrat (hrat damn)
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dont make me laugh Im eating lunch
turgle
ahahaha!
turgle
sorry
크맀이⇒ᴋʀɪssʏ
we're going to they/them land y'all