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dad's watching a documentary about kink . com...

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I came back upstairs when my food was done but it was like

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ok

ghost infant
....... oh

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I know this is a documentary but this amounts to turning on kinky porn in the living room while I'm sitting here

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he turned it on while I was already in the room

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they were showing a lot

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on the flip side a whole lot of the documentary was people talking about safety and consent in kink and how they as a company want actors/models to be safe and consenting and not pushed

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and genuine

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which was a pleasant surprise

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still, all the usual mixed feelings because Porn Industry but at least they know what kind of attitude was the right one to at least appear to have ide

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I still was too wigged out to watch it with my dad

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they were also profiling particular models and how they got into bdsm

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and peoples personal relationships with bdsm

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it seemed to have a very healthy image of bdsm

ghost infant
i looked up the trailer just now and honestly the trailer makes me want to watch it..

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I mean the parts I watched it was entertaining, everyone was nice and funny and not gross and had good attitudes about kink

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it was just weird to have MY DAD turn it on

ghost infant
LMAO YEAH I CAN ONLY IMAGINE

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but I mean we watched an entire TV series that chronicles the goings-on at a sex toy factory

ghost infant
i'm just like >oh nice

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but that's a bit different than a documentary with extended footage of actual porn

ghost infant
about the documentary in general cause i have a lot of feelings about bdsm and consent, positivity, visibility, etc

ghost infant
like yes porn ... industry...

ghost infant
but also i. bdsm. consent. positiveness. visibility.

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I MEAN OBVIOUSLY as they are producing mainstream porn they do the

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porn talk

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thing

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so in the scenes they shoot they tell people to do the gross porn insulting dirty talk shit

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but IT'S PORN OF COURSE THEY DO

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but they also are sitting there beforehand with people going down what they are and aren't comfrtable and repeatedly reassuring them that they want them to be in control and they should only do

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what they are comfortable with and they can stop at any time

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and hashing out what everyone's wants and limits are from the getgo

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aand if someone's unsure abut smth being talked about they explain more how it works and show them how it would be done and make sure it's clear and everything's ok, before anything actually gets going

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and that's good?

ghost infant
communication is my kink

ghost infant
but yes INFORMED ENTHUSIASTIC CONSENT.... is a thing that needs to be more visible to people wanting to learn about bdsm community so i'm just OH GOOD A DOCUMENTARY THAT SHOWS THAT

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esp since I've heard so many horror stories about companies that lay o pressure or spring things on models and are gross

ghost infant
especially with the rise of like

ghost infant
fuckin... 50 shades... and shit...

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HAHAHA yeah

Celizabeth Hood
my dad has done the same thing sob. i kno cuz my netflix history account. but they're all documentaries on porn stars and their history and my dad watches everything ever. like its v. obvious because he'll

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there's so much inherently wrong with the porn industry but I will at least gives these guys credit for APPARENTLY not being huge dicks to their models

Celizabeth Hood
talk to me about it and like LET ME TELL U ABOUT THE T ERRIBLE PARTS OF THE INDUSTRY but its still like

Celizabeth Hood
ur my dad


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HAHAHA

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my dad watches everything too

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and idcare what he watches it's just

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not when I'm right here!!

Celizabeth Hood
YEAH

Celizabeth Hood
but then he'll be like U NEED TO WATCH THIS PART. I mean it isn't an offensive part at least, it actually talks about some really interesting stuff but its like

Celizabeth Hood
NOOO I'LL WATCH IT ON MY OWN /runs away in tears

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oh nooo

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for awhile he binge watched like every gay romance movie on netflix and so many of them have tons and tons of heavy-handed sex scenes and i was always like 8[

ghost infant
clearly you should watch bdsm documentaries with me instead

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I feel like every gay movie ever starts with softcore het porn

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(i'm kidding i think i would die)

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(or enjoy it a lot)

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(i would die and enjoy dying?)