[RL, Relationship things] .../le sigh

This is the second time I've told my BF that I have ZERO desire to have sex. I love him, but nope, no sexual desire at all. I swear if he wants me to 'think' about things again, I'm going to tell him in no

simple terms that if he keeps asking its over.

yeah, sex has to be on your terms and not his

and i swear if he keeps pushing i'm going to drive down there and kick his ass for you

This is the second time I've told him. I won't tell him again. I've had a rough childhood of which most of it I don't remember for a good reason.

i can take him. i'll kick his ass for you.

There's no need. Though I do want to know dates for Tokyo in Tulsa for next year. I want to try and drive up for it.

Yeah... that's... not cool. It should be a mutual decision that neither side should be pressured into.

lemme find out for you bb

this year it's july 15-17, so i assume it's going to be around the same time next year

I won't be able to make this year, but I will certianly try to come up next year.

holy fuck that awesome joker cosplayer is a guest this year

He just told me that he felt trapped, and I told him that's not what I mean to do, but I'm not going to change for anyone. Then I wouldn't be me anymore and I will always be truthful to myself and my friends.

ugh i want to wring his neck for you

There's no need to. I think he's finally gotten the picture, and he's not being rude or mean about it. This is really the first major relationship either one of us has had. He just wanted to get some stuff off

his chest about our relationship. We've been together for a couple of years now. Like I said, think I finally got through to him.

that's good

but like i said, if you need me too, i will

ALSO if you can't do july next year, we've got wizard world in late october/november