Ranty McRanty Pants on Gender and Orientation Bloggity Blog
Niiiigel
Ranty McRanty Pants on Gender and Orientation Bloggity Blog
Ranty McRanty Pants on Gender and Orientation Bloggity Blog
Misha
i love you oh so much, bro.. you have no idea
Misha
Fαωn Dεω
I gave up on the SL gay community long ago, they refuse to see anything but bear's as men, as someone who uses a female base I'm constantly outcast and looked down upon, since I don't look the ideal 'male'
Niiiigel
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: You're very right. The SL Gay community is by and large mostly bears, leather daddys, gym queens and twinks. The more feminine side of the community is rarely welcomed with open arms.
Niiiigel
Misha
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Niiiigel
: there starting to outright ban female based avs which is unfortunate, many of the men who use female bases look as real as any of the bears, now I'm not talking the scary femboys but the...
Fαωn Dεω
.. bishi and andro men who use the fem base beacuse its impossible to achieve a certain look with the male one, when I first joined sl I tried, and tried, and have again recently, theres just not as much room..
Fαωn Dεω
to work to what people want with it, its sad, when the gay community is outcasting people for being themselves
Niiiigel
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: NO WAY. That's so @(%()$ messed up. sigh Y'know, we struggle as a community to be accepted and yet, at every turn, we further segregate ourselves inside of it. We're only hurting ourselves
Zaaf
It's been going on way too long. When will people learn that were all, underneath, just people?
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Niiiigel
: exactly ! its astounding how much prejudice people who complain about not being accepted can have, really, if your not interested don't worry, just say so, most of us arn't interested either
Fαωn Dεω
its almost equal to the straight man afraid every gay man will hit on him, not every female based male is gunna go after you, just relax, if your not into it, thats fine, were not gonna gang up on them
Niiiigel
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: I think at the core of human nature, we immediately just dislike or frown upon anything we don't understand. It then defaults to the community to educate which often ends up feeling like we're...
Niiiigel
...having to justify our existence which just makes it worse.
Niiiigel
Zaaf
: I'm a meat Popsicle, I don't know about you.
Niiiigel
AmadeoDubratt: 
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Niiiigel
: exactly, really people just should just stop being so terrified of other people on the inside were all mostly the same, why the bother with what you look like and who you like you like to screw
Zaaf
Niiiigel
: I'm disappointed you're not the goat with typing skills you've been pretending to be. 
Niiiigel
Zaaf
: DAMMIT, YOU FOUND ME OUT.
Rors®
well said
well said
Zaaf
Zaaf is wise. 
Niiiigel
Rors®
: 
Thank ya, ma'am.
Thank ya, ma'am.
Xadith
<3
Misha
all of this, it applies to many insular communities.. which really aren't as monolithic as they appear from the outside
all of this, it applies to many insular communities.. which really aren't as monolithic as they appear from the outside
Misha
i have many gay friends and loved ones, that cross the whole gamut of the LGBT community, and it really surprised me how exclusionary it is at times
Katy Isodo
Loving this post so much 
Natalie 🌈
OMG, i love you! What a fantastic blog piece 
As for the SL gay scene, it's very, very slowly changing, but yeah, massively gay male stereotype lead still...
As for the SL gay scene, it's very, very slowly changing, but yeah, massively gay male stereotype lead still...
Vaki
FUCK EM YOU GUYS
Vaki
FUCK EM BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT PEOPLE ARE AWESOME AND THAT IS ALL THE END.
Niiiigel
Vaki
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Vaki
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Mal Martynov
As a female in rl with very male tendencies who uses sl to be the very pretty man she feels like inside: Thanks Nigel.
Niiiigel
Mal Martynov
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Mal Martynov
i am really starting to believe i am a drag queen that had the misfortune of being born in a female body
Fearyfox(Reyn)
Thank you.
Thank you.
Ever Still
BRAVO. That was a glorious post and something that needs to be said often in this world of ours.
Niiiigel
Fearyfox(Reyn)
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Niiiigel
Ever Still
: Thanks, man. 
✨Skye
Such a wonderful post. You rock. 
Niiiigel
✨Skye
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Cult~Storm
All of this. I don't know why it is such a big issue lately. I have even had people in RP sims trying to dig and find info on my not "normal" SL family in the sim we are in. The way the idiot worded
All of this. I don't know why it is such a big issue lately. I have even had people in RP sims trying to dig and find info on my not "normal" SL family in the sim we are in. The way the idiot worded
Cult~Storm
it made every protective tendency in me come to the forefront. Hopefully the people that need to see your blog see the post, or at least some of them.