I'm the same as you... I call a spade a spade, i don't mince my words and i don't hide behind anons. If i have an issue with something or someone, i nail my courage to the sticking place as Lady Macbeth said
and say what i have to say. We're all different, our opinions will not always be the same and that's good and healthy and if we're adult enough then we also know that we can differ in opinion, express it
It doesn't have to, but it often does... I'm lucky, i seem to have a group of people on my timeline who are capable of having proper adult discussions about a wide range of deep topics that cause division