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Talking to my roommate is like talking to a fucking brick wall.

Dude, I'm sorry, but look - high-fructose corn syrup is not as big of a deal as you think it is.

People like soda. Is it healthy? No, not really, and we all know that. But that doesn't give you any right to say "OR you could grab a SELTZER and make a HEALTHY CHOICE" any time someone goes to get a soda.

It's really pretty hurtful. We already KNOW we're unhealthy, you don't have to tell us.

And you say you didn't mean to hurt anyone's feelings... but you did. And you have been all year. And ultimately, it doesn't matter if you meant to or not.

You don't get to decide how other people perceive your actions. If someone tells you you're being rude, you stop doing the thing, apologize, and try never to do it again.

If you absolutely must, ask WHY they thought it was rude. But under no circumstances should you sit there and tell me that my feelings on the matter are wrong!

I HATE when people are so self-righteous about their healthy eating/drinking choices

God, someone did that when I was with Tia and Travis... they talked about how Mountain Dew was unhealthy and how Tia and Travis shouldn't waste their money on it.

I basically said what I said to all assholes who are self-righteous about it: "we're all going to die anyway, let us do what we want. With any luck, we'll all die in the zombie apocalypse instead of by food."

(Or drink.)

(But, you know. Character limits LOL)

People should just be allowed to eat or drink however they damn well please.

This is why I always feel weird about eating healthy when I want to around people who eat a lot of junk. I don't want them to think I'm self-righteous

Same, but like... you shouldn't have to feel bad about eating/drinking whatever in front of people

And he thinks he's "caring about other people's health" by doing this but the end result is just making people feel bad about themselves

and it's not okay

Oh, and did I mention he was passive-aggressively messaging me arguing about this on Facebook while I was in my room and he was out in the living room playing a game with my boyfriend and our friends?

And then followed the three of us out to dinner like nothing was wrong?

And subsequently got me in trouble with my mom because our car only holds 4 and he came anyway so we had someone sitting on a cup holder with no seatbelt?

Christ, though. All I wanted to do today was have fun with people and play Bravely Default. Not this bullshit. When do I move, again?

What the hell.

/HUGS