the reason I never bought a mesh head so far is that although you can change makeup and things, they still all look the same as each others, until i can customise and change the shape of the jaw/cheekbones

nose or whatever so i can make it look different to someone else who has the same head i wont bother

I agree. I also need to be able to use the mesh eyes that I want. AND perfect skin matching with appliers

yes! it needs to be my sl face, but better

exactly. Ah well we can dream.