What do you do when a person in per say in a new friendship your making all the effort and they aren't what do you do?

oh god I wish I knew. This is happening to me right now, and it happens to me a lot and I just wind up fading away from them and feeling like a sap.

I don't bother. A new friendship isnt serious enough to start a fight over it. I'd just walk away.

Back off, let them contact you, if they do, cool, if not, walk.

Use your words...Just talk to them