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I am tired of people saying I should start flirting with and/or dating someone here
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even if they're joking I'm sick of it man
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I have a boyfriend
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I have a boyfriend I love very much and I'm sick of people saying stuff like OH WELL HE WOULDN'T KNOW WOULD HE
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that is fucking disgusting and I would feel horrible if I ever did such a thing
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you may be fine with flirting and dancing and even GOING OUT WITH someone who is not your significant other but I am not
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I probably wouldn't think of ~* shacking up with a Spaniard *~ even if I wasn't in a committed relationship ty
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yeah okay sure there are handsome guys but do I really care? no
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do I appreciate being told repeatedly to hit on one of these guys and cheat on my boyfriend? no
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I'm going to freaking scream at the next person who suggests it, I swear to god
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none of their business anyway jesus christ
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forges: I don't know
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I can understand if they're in open relationships or if the person they're with is comfortable with something like that or whatever
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but man I personally am not comfortable with the idea and am very tired with people joking or actually trying to pressure me into it
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then again I'm getting shit for not going out and partying every week/night so I don't know what I was expecting
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just wow leave me the fuck alone on this subject, I don't appreciate it
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I guess this goes in hand with how "lonely" and "standoffish" I seem so they're trying to ~* socialise *~ me
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fuck the hell off
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I will punch you all in the face
IcyThot
This is not the way to go about trying to socialize you.
IcyThot
If they really care, they would offer to hang out with you somewhere that's not a club.
IcyThot
Jeez. Kids these days don't know how to spend time with each other without going clubbing.
IcyThot
It's called chilling at a cafe or going around and sight seeing with each other.
IcyThot
Or going window shopping with one another and just hanging out.
HIKIKOMORTIS
I swear these exchange "students" think this is just a vacation instead of a learning experience. I'm sorry you have to deal with this.
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IcyThot
: haha they do that, but you only get invited along if you go to clubs with them all the time 
so yeah
so yeah
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but yeah lmfao their version of getting me into ~* socialising *~ is to suggest i go hit on guys. okay then
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HIKIKOMORTIS
: that is honestly what most of them are here for \:|/ so
IcyThot
That's still dumb. Not everyone clubs. It's normal not to club. 8|
IcyThot
Or maybe we're just that old fashioned.
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IcyThot
: lmao apparently so - or just weird for this particular group of people
IcyThot
I think it's the latter because I've never encountered this kind of problem on campuses.
HIKIKOMORTIS
They'll be in for a rude shock when their crappy grades impact their future prospects.
konatsu
Are they failing their classes?
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konatsu
: not the faintest - apparently they balance it well back home, so I guess they know what they're doing
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honestly, if it's fun for them, that's fine, I just don't like people trying to push me into it
konatsu
I don't think it's fair to say they're just there for a vacation, then.
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konatsu
: I've had multiple people say they are here to travel and travel only and can't wait for the classes to be over
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they may be going through the motions at least, but it is a vacation for them :T
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not everyone tho
konatsu
As long as they're still doing their work, does it matter if they value the travel abroad part of the program more than the actual classes?
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...look i'm just somewhat flustered by their attitude, that's all? like honestly, they can do what they want, that is fine, what i hate is that they keep trying to pull me into it
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and give me a lot of shit for not wanting to
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or honestly, not being able to afford it
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i am literately barely spoken to or interacted with on a daily basis because i 1) do not go clubbing every weekened at the least and 2) do not plan to go all over europe when there are break periods
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i dislike that i'm getting shunned like i'm in middle school because i can't afford and don't wish to get drunk every night, or am able to travel all around europe on a moment's notice while i'm here
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i honestly do and would not care about their attitudes - minus the fact i'm a little frustrated by it - if they did not shun me and treat me as if i'm dirt because i do not share their mindset and pocketbooks
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i don't like that they're here to party while i'm here to study, i do admit
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i'll complain about it when i'm particularly frustrated by it, but what they do with their own lives i really don't care about
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if they've got the money and the time and they can manage it, all the power to them
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i just wish they had the decency to not shun anyone who is not the same as them - since it's not just me, but my classmate from back home, and at least one other girl who's getting the same treatment
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i don't like being put in dangerous situations because of them either - such as having to walk back home for over an hour at 3:30 in the morning
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and then being locked out of my apartment until 5 in the morning since my housemates wouldn't pick up their phones and i was an idiot who lost my keys
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well, forgot, not lost
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i'm also mad that they not only have left me behind multiple times in bad situations, but most recently, they left two girls behind in cadiz during carnival - which is nearly 2-3 hours away by car
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and those two girls - who just went to the bathroom - had to take a train home because they literately could not find the people they came with
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and when at least one of those girls commented on how she was rather hurt that she had been left behind like that, and that no one had looked for her, no one cared
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so, yeah, i'm frustrated because they honestly don't care about other people and they're selfish to the tenth degree
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and after i pushed myself really hard to get here with studying, they're all here to party and give me shit for not joining them
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that's why i'm aggravated by them
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that's all