anon because... yeah! is 17 & 19 weird? 19 was turning 20 (less than 3 months away at the time) and 17 had already turned 17 that year (a bit over 2 months prior at the time) i think im blinded by the fact i was cared about because i dont see it as too bad idk?!? someone help open my eyes to if it was or wasnt strange behaviour...
definitely a bit of oddities it’s just awkward because one is legal and the other is still a minor for at least another year and there’s no guarantee that there wasn’t a power difference due to the age gap it really depends on how both parties and personally involved people feel as well because they can help dictate if the relationship is steady or not
its odd but its not that problematic unless behaviors prove otherwise. 17 will be an adult before 19 is drinking age so i dont really see a problem with it as thats usually in a similar maturity
something i forgot to add, not sure if it matters really but at the time of dating we had known eachother for a month, if that? (not my brightest moment ill say...) (cant add to main post because of no space)
is 17 & 19 weird? 19 was turning 20 (less than 3 months away at the time) and 17 had already turned 17 that year (a bit over 2 months prior at the time)
i think im blinded by the fact i was cared about because i dont see it as too bad idk?!?
someone help open my eyes to if it was or wasnt strange behaviour...