hot take: labels really shouldn't be made into such a big deal. I used to be on the "I NEED EVERY LABEL EVER" side of the spectrum, but a year or two of that, and I kinda realized it doesn't really matter?? like people will always see me as a girl, so I kinda gave up on figuring out my gender and realized I might be cis after all (1/2)

and with my sexuality, I like guys way more than I like girls. if someone asks me, I'll say straight/bi depending on who they are. Im so fucking tired of seeing label discourse within the community; THERE ARE BIGGER PROBLEMS.

completely unprompted btw I swear

I also want to add that this is just my personal experience, and people can use whatever they want and most of the time it's chill

honestly this is so real